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My ex-bf who is a year ahead of me in high school. Is about to go to college broke up with me last Monday when school was nearly ending through text saying that he honestly doesn't see this going anywhere, he told me that i ws starting the problems, that he couldn't date all this time and that he knew what he was getting into with me i kept asking what he meant by that but he kept saying that he doesn't know. He was only romantic through texts saying that he wanted to be my first kiss and he sent me pictures of couples cuddling and kissing saying that he wanted that with me but he never held my hand, he never asked me out on a date, he never kissed me he just gave me hugs and we spent time together in school. We had a lot of arguments through text because of this. He said that he doesn't show pda especially since i am not outgoing. Now that we broke up i told him that he broke my heart even though he was kind of sweet about it in the text. he now acts like i don't exist he doesn't initiate texts anymore except for that one time to ask if i was okay and he doesn't even try to see me anymore. This was a lame relationship but it was my first so i am here hurt and he is unchanged i wasn't his first. He told me that we wanted different things that he didn't want anything serious. And i recently did something stupid, i wrote to him telling him how much i missed him and he ignored it and when i asked him why he ignored me he said twice that we are just friends. He is leaving and he isn't even going to say good bye to me.

- you and your ex been together for 1 and a half years together
- this is both your longest relationship
- you guys fight a lot so you decide to break it off but you still love her/him
- so you still want to remain in contact regularly and try to see your ex every week as just "friends"
- its been 4 months and your ex finally told you that they still wanna be with you but you think its not the right time to get back together
- you are not seeing any other girls/guys except your ex since you're just mainly focusing on your career
- then you found out that your ex has been seeing someone else
- you are hurt by this so you decide to move on and cut contact with your ex
- then few days later, your ex sends you a long message expressing their love for you and that they only want you and so they broke things off with that other person to be with you

Would you take your ex back?
Or not?

My boyfriend broke up with me because he's pursuing his dream career that would take a lot of his time and attention and he thinks its not fair for me
So a week later, I was seeing another guy who gives me a lot of attention and time
My ex found out about it and got hurt
Then he stopped talking to me
I broke it off with the new guy coz I knew i was still in love with my ex
So i wrote him a message saying that i still love him but i need and want commitment from him
Then he replied:
"I am sooo mad at you but I can't be without you. I want to commit but I need to do my own things too"

Does this mean he's willing to commit?

Just say you are in this scenario:
- you and recent ex broke up few months ago
- it was your longest relationship
- after you guys broke up, you guys still keep in contact regularly and still hang out every week
- deep down, you still love your ex and secretly hope you guys get back together in the future and trying to make things work
- you are not seeing anyone else
- then recently you found out your ex has been seeing someone else
- you're hurt by this and decide to cut contact with your ex and block your ex from everything
- you told them that you loved them and wish them happiness and told them you're happy for them that they found someone else

If your ex decides to send you a long love message few days later.. saying that they still love you and not serious with that person theyre seeing.. through their friend's phone, would you reconsider taking them back or move on?

Just say you are in this scenario:
- you were together with someone for more than a year
- its your longest relationship
- after you guys broke up, you guys still keep in contact regularly and still hang out every week
- deep down, you still love your ex and secretly hope you guys get back together in the future
- you are not seeing anyone else
- but then recently you found out your ex has been seeing someone else
- you're hurt by this and decide to cut contact with your ex and block your ex from everything

If your ex decides to send you a long love message saying that they still love you and actually not serious with that person theyre seeing.. through their friend's phone, would you:
- read it and reply?
- read it and not reply?
- ignore it?

Just say you are in this scenario:
- you were together with your ex for more than a year
- its your longest relationship
- after you guys broke up, you guys still keep in contact regularly and still hang out every week
- deep down, you still love your ex and secretly hope you guys get back together in the future
- you are not seeing anyone else
- then recently you found out your ex has been seeing someone else
- you're hurt by this and decide to cut contact with your ex and block your ex from everything

If your ex decides to send you a long love message saying that they still love you and not serious with that person theyre seeing.. through their friend's phone, would you read it or ignore it?

I talk with a guy who probably likes me. well not probably. I am sure cause he told me already. The problem with this guy is that he hurt my best friend a lot in the past. When I say a lot I mean the hell a lot. He fooled her that he wanted relatioship while he is a womanizer who sleeps with many. Somehow he convinced her and the poor girl didn' have any experience with men. See this woman was virgin and he wanted sex and he pushed her. When he found a new easier model he left her broken in pieces. Her parents are severe and they kicked her out of house so she wnet to him for help but he didn't help her. She is 25 by the way and now she will finosh college after a year of crying for this asshole. She lives with me and i help her thats how i know everything. Nowdays we met randomly outside with the ex and he give me hints. He thinks I don't know this girl and I don' tknow the story but I know Everything. And I want to hurt him and make him spill blood for what he did to my friend. All this time she cried and was hospitalized and he was having sex with two other women. And now he wants to add me also to collection lollllll. He is the type of guy who is manipulative and narcissist. 35 from indian origin who lived for years in Europe but can't leave behind the mentality of his country. He shows he is religious doesn't pray but avoid drinks and pork but he fucked 20 womem so far so yeah pretty religious guy. Now he only cares about pussies and money. He had bad experiences with women in the past but that doesn't give him the right to mess with the life of my VIRGIN AND INNOCENT AS FUCK FRIEND. He believes he knows everything and all women chase him. My friend was a huge ego boost for him cause she is really attractive but with low self esteem. I think now is the time to take things on my own hands and make him pay for all the suffering he caused. If you want to help me mess with him I would appreciate a lot cause this bastard really needs this. Thanks !