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Ok for a while I have been struggling with my girl and the difference in effort we are putting into the relationship. We are in our second year and I have noticed that in many cases she will be stressed or need help with something and I am always there and try to go above and beyond to be there for her. Recently I got in a little trouble and have to attend a review justice board. Part of why I’m in trouble is because I listened to my girls advice and did something against my best judgment. I have been given the chance to bring someone with me. When I requested that she would go with me as her word would help lessen the verdict with her statement she said that she won’t go. She said that it’s too stressful and she doesn’t want to go. I am dumbfounded as I would have went to this for her in a heartbeat. This has highlighted to me a background in her being over-sensitive and ultimately when the going gets tough she isn’t there for me. I don’t necessarily want to break up but it has become clear that she won’t be there when I need her most. This is beyond troublesome to think that this is the girl I rely on most. At this point would I be wrong for wanting to end things. I can’t take any more of this one sided feeling of support between me and her. I love this girl with all my heart but I don’t know if I can love her the same way after this. She actually got mad at me for being upset that she wouldn’t come as support and it took 2 hours and me buying her a meal for her to even forgive me for being upset that she won’t be there for me. I can’t do this anymore.