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This is a long story but I'm gonna try to make it short as possible
Over the summer me and my best guy friend became even closer than usual
We had sex one night and after that night we decided to become friends with benefits (friends with benefits)
And we both knew that we would get feelings for each other and we both did
But my feelings are more "extreme" then his, more like I like him a lot more than he likes him... He makes my heart skip a beat and he makes me nervous around him like the good kind of nervous and I have so many feelings for him I can't explain and I know those feelings are not just because of the sex, I used to like him before we had sex but I some what got over those feelings.
And now like 6 months later
Those feelings grew more and more

Ok so now to where my question comes in...

Since we were just friends with benefits
We both could get boyfriends/girlfriends
And if they break up with us
We would start friends with benefits over agian
And right now he has a girlfriend
And I've been feeling really down about it
He knows how I feel about him
He said he likes me but I just don't know if that's true
I also know he's not using me or playing me

So... Last night we were texting each other about everything
It sort of turned into an argument but then everything cooled down
And he told me I should get over him

But i don't know what to do
Every ounce of fiber in me is telling me I shouldn't get over him but I just don't know what to do

Can u guys help me?

And sorry this is really long but I really need help on this...

So...
Should I get over him?

I recently had sex with a guy that I have been occasionally texting with. We spent a lot of time together and after having sex we had an intiment cuddle sesh complete with smooches and a great conversation. He made a comment asking where I want to/ where I see this going in a very romantic manner which I thought was kind of odd considering it was our first time being together. I left feeling really great about the whole situation. However, the following few days we rarely texted and only did if I initiated the conversation (I should mention that this has always been his texting style). But when we did, we talked about how much we're looking forward to see each other again and how great of a time we had. To prevent myself from being bummed out, I'm telling myself that he is just very busy (which is true) and isn't the best texter. My question for you is whether or not this guy also felt a connection and is interested in me but simply does not prioritize constant contact like texting. Guys, is this possible?
Thank you!