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My guy friends seem to only want to talk about sex and dank. Lately, the sex talk is getting more personal, like they'll ask me what I've done or what I'm into or would like to do, or have done to me. Is this just how guys talk or are they trying to get into my pants?

When they ask me specifically if I would like to have sex or threesomes with them or if I like bondage and then say it was just a joke, how am I supposed to react? I am attracted to a couple of them, but I don't want to look stupid if I seem interested and they were just kidding. Personally, I would never talk about stuff I like to do with guys I wouldn't do it with. Does that work for guys, too? Do guys talk about detailed sex stuff with all girls, or just ones they'd like to sex up?

The other night this guy I have been friends with for tons of years and I got together. We hadn't talked for around 6 months. Whenever we get together he asks me if the last person I hooked up with was such and such guys (he always asks about my crushes too). He never gives details about people he's been with, but he tells me a number. I don't know why he does this. Last time we even talked about threesomes... which I have done one before. He is curious to try one, but isn't sure if he can handle it?

I feel this is an odd conversation for us. We both had feelings for each other at one point, but we don't right now. He used to always try to hook up with me.. I always denied him. He doesn't try to hook up with me anymore fyi.

It's not that I think he's a bad guy either, he just has a lot to figure out. We've said before that we'd have great sex... but that was yeeaarrss ago.

Is this some form of friendzoning? Or is this competition? I thought it was friendzoning for a while... but, the other night I found out he had said he was seeing someone when he really wasn't. So odd. He told my best friend that he was seeing a girl as a "friend" thing, but told me that they had this amazing connection.

I'm starting to get the feeling... he might have some suppressed feelings for me? That he feels the need to compete against me? I used to think he wanted to make sure I'd moved on from him, but now I'm beginning to think that he's a little jealous even? I don't know.

What do you all think?

I don't care about height too much nor any other stuff that seems petty. However, these are my deal-breakers and if I lower my standards even more, then I would feel like I'm settling:

1) Cruel to others and animals
2) Having a past record of violence or drug related charges
3) Drinks and parties too much
4) Slept around in the past (threesomes, casual sex, paying escorts, friends with benefits ... anything outside a committed relationship); now if all his relationships lasted only a couple months then that's also a Red Flag to me
5) Is obese and has no motivations in life
6) Is very frugal to the point of always splitting the bill 50/50 and never switching turns or always using coupons on ever single hang-out

Now in the last one, notice I didn't say there is anything wrong with splitting the bill but would like taking turns (for instance, I'll pay one day and next time he does... and vice-versa) and doing romatic things for one another every now and then. If that's too much, he's going to be even counting his cents and he's going to be screaming out ''but it's 2014, it's equality'' that's would turn me off.