Search Results: when you split from a girl

1) A while back I got the number of an old childhood friend (girl) and texted her just to see if she could remember me. In her reply she sounded really exited to hear from me and asked me what I was doing lately. I answered and asked the same question but she never replied. A few days after that I sent her another text just to tell her I just wanted to say hello and that she and her sister can ask me anytime for help since they don't live that far from me (My mother told me where they live). She also didn't reply to that one.

2) Recently I joined a Meetup group to do some hiking while getting to know new people. After the second meetup I messaged this girl I know from the first meetup and asked her if she would mind answering a question or 2 about the route her group took. (At some point the groups split between the fast and slow groups) She replied : "No, not at all! You're more than welcome to ask?". After that I asked her a question about the route they took but she didn't answer me.

In both scenarios I used WhatsApp and I can see they have read it, but they are just ignoring me. I can understand if they don't want to talk to me, but why give me a positive answer just to ignore me later?

Guy 1.
Guy 1 has a career in the legal system.
He sees women as his equals because his profession is heavily female laden.
Although shy, he is able to hold his own in many arguments with his knowledge of facts.
His hobbies are computers, reading science fiction and playing computer games. He also likes coding mods into existing video games.
As a child he had a closer bond with his mother than his father as he grew up in a single parent family after his mother drove his father away due to her anger issues. Despite having caused the split, she still got half his dad's shit and full custody.
He doesn't like spicy food and is a pescatarian.
Sometimes he gets "stage fright" when using public restrooms and has to go in a stall because he never had a male role model.
He doesn't follow sports.
He is very respectful of women but it's due to intimidation factors stemming from his single mother upbringing.
He can't perform jobs around the house and has no hard skills.
He needs to be fully relaxed or he gets anxiety related E. D.
He still goes home to his mother on weekends.

Guy 2.

Guy 2 is a builder. He can do everything around the house. He doesn't really have a high level of respect for women because there aren't many in his profession. His encounters with women usually involves either explaining things about construction or odd jobs that they don't understand or trying to get in their pants.
He doesn't give a crap what he eats as long as its edible and he pisses wherever he needs to.
His hobbies include punting on sports, watching sports, fishing and working on home improvements and car restoration.
He had both a mother and father growing up but left home at a young age to start his trade apprenticeship.
He knows exactly how to fuck all the right places and he enjoys it.
If you get in an argument with him, he just stops listening and thinks you are stupid. He has a very practical mind.
He visits his parents on their birthdays, Christmas etc.