Search Results: avoiding conversation

How do I avoid a girl without being toxic?

There is this girl at work I am attracted to. She has a boyfriend who is strict but she still engages in flirting with me and sometimes we even have physical flirting like pushing and bumping into eachother, I would draw...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Why is she talking to other guys normally at work, but can't say much to me?

This girl i like at work suddenly can't talk to me easily at work. We were very chatty to start with when I first met her 3 years ago. Conversation flowed really well. Now it seems like we have this quiet vibe between us...

ando90

Xper 7 Age: 31

I don't know what to do with this guy, some advice?

He keeps going and coming. I've known him for already 2 years. When we spend time together, everything is fine, he's attentive, pays for everything, does everything the way it pleases me... We also tend to chat a lot. But...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When you reject someone, it's usually best to simply say something like "My heart belongs to someone else".

It's succinct, concise, and a powerfully firm rejection while also being gentle enough to say that neither person is at fault and should not blame themselves all in the most honorable way possible. This Take will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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How many dates before a girl wants to know where you live or expects an invitation to your house?

I’m a 29 year old bachelor and have always been somewhat introverted and cautious when it comes to dating. Overall I consider myself a pretty normal person, but my lifestyle isn’t consistent with a lot of people my age....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a man like you and avoid you at the same time?

There’s a man who I thought was my soulmate. We connected. I am the one who made first contact because I noticed him first. So I just started a friendly conversation and he seemed flattered and engaged and then suddenly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is winking at a girl flirting or friendly?

He only did it once because I kinda had a surprising look on my face. He is my coworker and around my age. He has a girlfriend too. He is extra nice to me and stands close. If I hand him someone and my hand accidentally...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Is there something wrong with me for thinking this way?

I’ve wanted to write a book for 16 years and failed to publish a single book and than my friend published 16 books in 5 years and brags about it constantly. I spent 5 years learning piano and wanted to be a musician and I...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

Why would a man choose to walk away from a relationship over admitting guilt? Or admitting he lied?

When faced with physical evidence recently, instead of just admitting to the accusation of speaking with someone over the phone and having text conversations in abundance. My now ex chose to walk away from a nearly two...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A guy strikes up conversation with girl in public and gets her number. What's the best way he should proceed in engaging interest from said girl?

A guy gets as far as getting the number. How does he avoid getting ghosted (via being too clingy, too boring, too annoying, etc)?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hot for my boss?

I recently quit my job. my manager and I have been flirting off and on for the entire duration of my employment. He has a girlfriend (don’t judge me). I feel like I have a connection with him or I would care more about...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What he wants from me?

A few months ago a guy, I knew before, texted me. We used to talk almost everyday, and we had really nice conversations. I liked him and he liked me, as he told me. One day he told me that he lives with his girlfriend. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What’s the appropriate way to approach a woman?

I’d like to start talking to my coworker & I want it to seem as Casual as possible. I’ve already Spoke before & Complimented her Hair / outfit. How should I approach? I’d like detailed steps I want to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, if you use a pet name out of nowhere, does it mean you’re interested?

This guy seemed interested in me, but we barely got to talk due to working in different departments/only seeing one another during *not before or after* shifts occasionally (and me being an IDIOT when it came to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Seeking advice: Met a really nice cashier with an attractive personality, and I feel like I want to get to know her more. Do I dare ask her out?

On a recent shopping trip, I had a very pleasant interaction with a surprisingly friendly cashier. I was in line for another checkout, the store was busy, the lines were long. I noticed the next lane over had cleared up,...

imanengineer

Xper 1 Age: 29

Does my ex seem interested again?

So my ex and I have been broken up for a little over 2 months now. He broke up with me. It was due to external reasons including distance and some personal reasons within himself. Well we’ve been talking quite a bit...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girlfriends and online?

Myself and my girlfriend have been dating almost a full year. When we first met and started dating she'd show or talk about us everywhere. After about 5 months or so then found out she has 2 accounts everywhere. At that...

Metalswayer

Xper 3 Age: 28