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We just had a question about how judgmental people are in general. I was surprised. Most people seemed to vote between 7-10/10 and while we see many judgmental people in the world, it was surprising to see that because often times people on forums don't admit to it, or the people posting on forums are often not those type of people.

I also noticed users breaking it down in terms of the type of interpersonal relationship. Dating is where it seems to be the highest, and as a result, I'd like to take a poll focusing only on how judgmental you think you are with respect to dating.

Rate yourself out of FIVE.

Definition of "judgmental": having or displaying an excessively critical point of view.

I have to say, as much as I hate judgments, and in spite of the fact that I am very open-minded in general especially when it comes to sexual past (I have a zero-judgment policy in that regard), I'd still probably give myself a "2", which I think is reasonable. You have to have some standards. But I think quite a few people definitely go way too far with ideals and expectations and the prevalence of that in this society is what I am attempting to "measure" with this poll.

She broke up with me after 11 months because she had some doubts. We've met up a few times over the past 2 months. The last time we hung out was her breaking no contact after 3 days by drunk dialing me at 2am, me picking her up, her saying how much she loves and misses me (said the same thing the following morning when sober), us spending the entire following day together (PDA, I love you's etc). She told me that she sees a life with me but wants to settle into the decision. She also said that she is afraid she is making the wrong decision but again, says she needs to "settle into the decision" in order to see if this is the right or wrong decision. The plan is to go no contact and she will reach out to me down the road if she changes her mind (in the mean time I work to move on). She re-activated her account on match. com last week and then deactivated it three days later (I assume she wasn't ready plus she saw my account was active). While I am going on dates via match, I am not going to lose all hope with this relationship. We are 16 days no contact, how long do I wait until I break the no contact? Going indefinite is too difficult. Basically, I don't want to rush her but at the same time I can't just sit and wonder, even though I am trying to meet other girls.