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So long story short last fall I met this girl and we had amazing chemistry like I have never had before. Now I know 75% of people are super anti-ex and this question is not for you. We broke up and tried dating a few more times. But she has a trust issues and thinks I won't commit. The last time I was going slow because SHE asked and she still blames me. I think we both still like each other and she just thinks I won't commit so it will not work.

Anyway I really have never found a women I wanted to fight for until now but I have no clue how to win her back. All the online "help" I find and my own experience says romance after a break up never works and to go slow and trick my way back in. But going slow is what got me here she thinks I can not step up. Im visiting her city on vacation next month and I want to try to send flowers and ask her to meet me for a "date" a word that I think would mean and show a lot to her. But at the same time I am going to look desperate. How do I look like Im serious and want to jump all in but not come off as desperate which drives her away? Any tips on what to say or do.

Well... I'm not sure what to do now. I'm 21 and she's 18.

Long story short, I've known her for about 2 years through my cousin who used to be her boyfriend, they broke up almost 2 years ago, because he was moving to another country.

After a year or so, I started to think that I might like her, but I wasn't sure about It, she never showed any kind of liking me back, we normally talk to each other really sweet, but she pretty much treats anyone the same way, hence, I wasn't suspicious about it

4 months ago I came to the conclusion that I was falling In love with this girl, but didn't wanted to say anything for the circumstances In which I met her, and also because the times we saw each other neither of us acted In a way that will set the alarms.

I came back a month ago from a trip, and saw her after a week, to only find out I felt the same way than three months ago. So on Friday I decided to tell her how I felt about her, hoping she would say she didn't saw me with the same eyes but we could keep being good friends, that way I could set my mind free and feel relieved.

My biggest fear arose, she told me she wasn't going to lie but she used to feel the same way, and even she tried with another guy hoping to forget me, that she would have liked to known me in a different way, and that just time will tell, she doesn't know what to say, that why I waited until now to tell her, that now with all this she wants to cry.

Here comes the part that confuse me, she said "I never suspected nothing from you about me, otherwise I would've take the risk, you knew how to disguise your feelings or I was blind at your clues, let's talk no more about what could have happened"

She really doesn't feel the same way anymore, might she be scared? should I keep trying or should I take her word, and just stop trying.

She used to SHOW many signs of interest such as talking and smiling at me a lot, offering me things, sitting next to me, looking at me, etc.. This was awhile ago but after i told her i had feelings for her, she started acting shy around me, she wouldn't talk to me unless i takled to her and she would look down. I Didn't talk to her for months thinking she didn't like me. After that she got back with her ex who she is broken up with now. When she was with him, she said "maybe we could be great friends" to me. She still acts the same way as before and we haven't talked in awhile. We just got out of summer break. We are on day 3. Since day 1 she has been acting the same and we haven't been talking, Sometimes i see her looking at me when i'm not looking. At the bus stop on the first day she picked up her phone and said "let me call my boyfriend" but she hung up after like 3 seconds... I don't know my friend said she was trying to make me jealous. The point is... i really like her but i have no clue what to do... does she like me? i can't ever stop thinking about her man :/ i know she could have been telling the truth about having a boyfriend but i took what my friend said in consideration... What should i do? I Also a friend last year asked her if she liked me and she said no... Maybe she is in denial? idk... I'm STARTING to THINK she isn't interested.. idk... My friend told me that he can see her staring at me secretly. i was talking to this other girl on the bus and she tried to jump into our conversation... of course i ignored her and what we were talking about was kind of inappropriate... but the girl i was talking to told her... Why can she talk to any other guy but me? I know i've asked this question A thousand times but i just can't stop thinking about her. Today she didn't really look at me much because she was so focused on talking to other guys...