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So I'm now in a relationship with a man I met accidentally a couple of weeks ago but prior to that was seeing a guy once a week 'dating' who had the idea that when you 'date' you only see one person and not meet multiple people like I was under the impression you did. Well the guy I had met before has basically messaged me today noticeably unhappy that I hadn't spoken to him properly for over a week and appear to have been dating someone else whilst seeing him (having not seen him for over 2 weeks now and I now have a boyfriend) and I'm just curious as to how others view it! Thanks, guys!

I’m 24 and never had a real relationship. Not even had one to begin with. But I’ve lost weight and still don’t really get noticed by guys. Hence, why I’ve tried online dating in order to keep my options open in hopes of finding someone that I connect with. However, I’ve only had failed dates or more than one date with a person, and it generally results in lack of connection or interest. I’ve only ever “dated” someone online for 3 months and it was long distance. Tried OKC, Match, POF, Tinder, Christian Mingle and Hinge. I give up. I don’t actively send messages, I’ll maybe only message first if I see we both liked each other. When I tried to message multiple people a few times, didn’t work out well 😞

This guy and I matched on a dating app and after his multiple attempts to ask me out I finally agree. He picks a local sushi place and I suggest another place, but he insists on his choice. We get there and he goes to start ordering when he asks me should we order 3 or 4 rolls. I told him lets start with 3 and see how it goes, but he insists on 4 and let me pick one. Things were going great. The conversation was great and we didn’t stop laughing. He ended up getting 3 drinks and I had one. The bill comes and he asks me to split it. I couldn’t tell if he was joking or not so I hesitated and then said sure. He picks up the check puts his card in it and sets it down. After a little bit again he says so are we splitting this? It felt like the date was ruined. The bill was $115 and with tip it cost me about $70. All I could think is all the other places I would have rather eaten for $70. I tipped almost 20% and he tipped about 8%. I almost shut down and no longer wanted to answer his questions. I just wanted to go home. Am I overreacting? He kept pushing we get drinks after but I couldn’t get over that he would probably have me pay for those to. He wants to hang out again, but this just really bothers me. Don’t pick a nicer place not let me pick the order, order a couple of drinks and then insist we split if things are going well.