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Black girls, Is it a novelty to date a white guy?

I was just curious, I have friends that are infatuated with Black Women. Does the same hold true for Black Women? Do you think about trying a White Guy because it seems different. If not are there any differences in...

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I was just curious, I have friends that are infatuated with Black Women. Does the same hold true for Black Women? Do you think about trying a White Guy because it seems different. If

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The Life and Times of a Total Loser (Pt. 2)

Hey everyone, this is part 2 of my life story, detailing from the end of part 1 in the 3rd grade until the 6th grade. Part 1, along with a basic explanation of whats going on, can be found here:...

Dave_the_Dude

Xper 5 Age: 39

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Family & Friends

At 18 years old am I responsible for underage friends?

I'm 18 soon to be 19 and most of my friends are 17 and 18 although I do have a couple 16 year old friends. I was with a big group of people the other night. We were at this girls house. She's 16, two other guys were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Who is more privileged in western society? Men or Women?

For the TL:DR crowd, my take boils down to this: Women often live together in their opaque bubbles, and guys often live alone at sea, swimming in misconceptions and self delusions. It has been said many times over that...

Watermelonoma

Yoda Age: 35

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Flirting

I feel like I'm in a competing for a guy. Do you think I have a chance?

There is the guy that I have been friends with for a while and I have just reciently been flirting with him, and he has been flirting back big time. Nothing is official yet. But there is this other girl who is flirting...

Hiddengirl

Xper 5 Age: 27

Guy's Behavior

Why does my friends with benefits act like this?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that

Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that period we never crossed the line, but we still flirted intensely. Before those periods though, he use to touch me. During and before, he complimented me all the time. A year ago, we got matched up in the same classes after a year of being apart. He had his girl, I had my guy. I never really crossed the line because I felt that was unfair to my boyfriend, but my friends with benefits told me once that he saw us being in a relationship. We smoked together sometimes, once he told me he was hoping we'd just be shit faced and have an affair with eachother. He brought up motions of us being together. And shit.

I feel like he did that because he had his girl, so he felt safe saying that stuff, you know? But that's just my theory.

So my boyfriend and I split in January. He and his girlfriend in February . Soon after we kissed, and gradually moved up to sleeping with eachother.

Now. He NEVER brings up the thought of us together. He seems so terrified just at the thought of us being together. I can jokingly call him "Babe" and just in an instant he'd be like, "Don't call me that". Like relax man, I was just joking. LOL. But he calls other girls pet names jokingly, and has noooo problem with that.

I mean like. To be honest, the feelings have always been there. But I'm leaving for a four-year university in September. I'm sure it wouldn't work anyway. And he's one of my closest friends, so why do it if I'm gonna' probably end up losing him? I'm not attached to him. Usually when I have feelings it's like an obsession, but it's not like that with him. I just feel comfortable with him and the idea of not dating him doesn't phase me.

I have my theories, share yours. I like to hear other opinions.

I'm going to go see him tomorrow. Now that we graduated and no one's in our busniess, he'll probably be up front with me.

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The Life and Times of a Total Loser (pt. 1)

Sup everyone... My names Dave, and a long time hobby of mine has always been writing. Ever since I was a kid I've enjoyed writing short stories and poems and I've recently decided to take on a more ambitious project and...

Dave_the_Dude

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Guy's Behavior

Does he like me or just not interested at all?

I've been texting this guy now for 3-4 weeks after sleeping together. We hadn't seen eachother since but "bumped into each other" in town. His friends were all staring at me and making it obvious. He is known as being shy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

He really hurt me and I can't let it go - How do I move on?

We only dated for about 2 months but we saw each other several times a week and texted pretty much all day everyday. Pretty early on I made it clear that I wasn't looking for a casual hookup type thing and that I wanted...

Anonymous

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Society & Politics

I have issues, I want to be happy... help?

Im 19 turning 20, i was born into a christian family so basically believe happiness can only come when one truly accepts God... and i have been trying. But with how unpredictably difficult life has been these past years...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, I don't why my ex acts this way?

My ex boyfriend (32) and I (35) were together for over a year. Broke up. At the time I didn't know why. He got into another relationship. He found out the she has a boyfriend while she was "dating" my ex. She claimed to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Guys, What's going on with my Best Friend with Benefits? What can I do to make things normal again?

Recently, I hooked up with (no sex) my best male friend. For backstory, he and I are in a group together at our university, and had spent the better part of a year getting to know each other and doing some flirting,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, do you all do this?

Where do I start? I am not here to change my boyfriend but I need a perspective to broaden my horizons and become a better person. I am 25, he is 32. We are not married but have been together for 5 years total. We own a...

newagehippie

Xper 4 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Me and my Ex have been on and off for three years and she broke up with me recently and I simply want to understand where I went wrong?

Me and my ex have been on and off for like three years we were friends for like two and really invested in each other she was madly in love with me and eventually I too fell in love, we seriously dated for about 5 months...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy from your past randomly show up one day viewing your social profile but doesn't contact?

I met this guy like several years ago that I had a really big crush on and he seemed to like me to. I automatically got the player vibe from him though because he was always canceling plans or won't respond to any message...

Anonymous

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Guy's Behavior

I think I love my best guy friend but he's wrong for me?

I've known my friend since we started an adult course together to get in uni. During college i simply had no feelings other than platonic for him because he projected himself as a player and I've handled my fair share. We...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Guys are you tired of being "Friend-zoned"? Solution: Don't settle for it to begin with

Many young males have experiences the "Friend-zone" where a guy may have romantic feeling for a woman but she doesn't reciprocate the same feelings and whether or not she is oblivious to it she considers him "just a...

ViciousVic22

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Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy smokes weed and ends up holding a girl's hand / maybe even more?

So, I'm a female, married, and this happened on two separate occasions. Both are with white males. The first one, it was a casual hangout with one of my friends. Watching YouTube videos, etc. Him and his roommates were...

Anonymous

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Relationships

Is she just looking for a hook up?

Hey i am 19 and this girl is 18 we had a thing a year rago but iam over it and she's too ( we work at subway , a huge one by the way ) , the thing is she kept telling me how she doesn't what all her friends do and go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How can I really put my past behind me and move on?

I feel lost, I feel unimportant, I feel confuse, I feel unloved, I feel nasty, I'm hurt, disappointed, used, and unappreciated. But long short short: I'm really trying my best to put the past behind me and move forwards...

Anonymous

(30-35)