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Search Results: getting casual
Being Friendly vs. Being Interested: The Difference
Well, hello everyone. It's me again. Some people are naturally friendly with others, no matter who they’re talking to or interacting with, they show a very kind and nice personality. However ,the bad thing about that is...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is drinking itself a problem, or just what can come from it?
Disclaimer: I am NOT talking about alcoholism, or any dependency. That is obviously harmful. Just about casual drinking. My boyfriend drinks, I drink casually too. Usually once during the week, and on weekends....
tired_girl_
Xper 6 Age: 30 Getting over a partners number?
I am very inexperienced, and have recently been dating a girl who after the first date she invited me in to her place I declined she asked why and I explained I have an issue with casual sex and I would rather it be...
Anonymous
(25-29) When you drop a girl?
Girl and me were getting together hooking up Then I got with another girl and left the other girl We were just casual no relationship with the first girl She feels cheated and seems to have gone crazy Crazy...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do you keep relationships casual?
I don’t want a serious relationship, all I want is sex and the odd bit of fun, maybe a meal once in a while or something. It’s not to keep my options open I just do not want a full on relationship, I’m very busy and value...
bubbles328
Xper 7 Age: 40 Specifically asking COMMITMENT PHOBES/EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN?
Met an emotionally unavailable man. He has not been in a relationship for 7 years he is now 37 years old. I am 38. I, myself, am pretty emotionally unavailable after getting out of a long abusive relationship, so after...
snowwhite29
Xper 5 Age: 46 He wants to cheat on me?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 1. We R casual We met at university though he was senior to me. We don't live together. And we never stayed together during the term holidays either. He would leave for his...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I ditch this friend?
I've known this guy for 9 years ever since high school. We have the same sense of humor. But thats it! To sum it up we dont even have the same human values. I want the white picket fence while this guy just wants to fool...
Dman93
Xper 4 Age: 33 From Soul Mate, to Ghost, to Zombie?
Started chatting with coworker via text. Got along great. Both going through divorce. In 2 weeks time agreed to meet for coffee then became agreeing to meet for a 1 night stand - no commitment. After that 1 night we both...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I am so dumb! Literally just ruined something that I’ve been wanting for months! How to get over this?
I really wish I could go back in time & fix this! So for MONTHS, I’ve been wanting a friend with benefits! Just someone I could get physical pleasure from but also companionship from! I’m def not ready for a committed...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think good girls and guys will make a comeback?
I believe so. A lot of depression regarding bad girl, boy, behavior is taking a heavy toll on dating. My bad boy guy friend was even like, " I need to change, sex doesn't even mean much. I want to cook for someone, hold...
Anonymous
(30-35) We went on three dates n I have some burning questions?
1. We met in Uber n he chatted with me for three weeks before asking me out for a date. 2. First date was romantic n he wanted to go to the beach. He said he was not serious. 3. Second date was next day n we ate n then...
butterfly100
Xper 4 Age: 38 Is it okay to have a casual fling when you are pretty sure it won't be something longterm?
We dated for a month or two, but I wasn't feeling it at that time. I'm still not sure what it was, she seemed great, but something just didn't click. I told her this and she was a bit bummed out, but otherwise fine with...
Anonymous
(30-35) How should I handle this situation where I insulted/objectified this person I had been dating?
Recently ended a budding casual thing (mutually), because feelings were not there on either side. I, however, was interested in continuing casually/fwb (didn't push it really much because I wanted to respect what she...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you believe it's true when people say most men are afraid of commitment?
I feel like this statement goes around quite a lot on this site when women talk about their stories of wanting to be in a relationship with a man but end up getting one that either only wants a casual relationship or just...
How can I attract men that are serious?
I've seen similar questions where people assumed that the girl would be a huge flirt, that she maybe slept with men too soon, that she maybe showed too much skin or that she would look for men in all the wrong places. I'm...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I break up with him for constantly putting his female friend before me?
My on and off boyfriend of 2 years has had a female best friend before meeting me. He claims that she is like family. My first impression of her when we met was her telling me that my boyfriend was perfect. The way her...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why was he suddenly interested in what I wanted?
Was on PoF looking for casual sex, but with extra emphasis on wanting it to be a friendship with sex, not just a fuck buddy or booty call. Like I wanted to go do things with this person as friends. One guy started...
Anonymous
(36-45) Got feelings from a girl almost 3 years younger... met her once? Only known her for like 75 days?
Is it even possible to get attached after meeting ONCE? That was supposed to (in her books) just end up in casual sex. The only thing that gives me any hope at all, is she hasn't stopped talking to me/ignoring me, we...
Buckzor
Yoda Age: 28 Should I tell him the day he wants to see me is on my birthday?
So I just recently started texting this guy. Things are going well. He asked to see me tomorrow, which is my birthday. We aren't friends on FB yet or anything, so there is no way he would know. I'm totally down to see him...
Anonymous
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