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Ok so I’ve been thinking about the last relationship I had and I was thinking it is my fault but people tell me that it was her fault but i don’t really know so ok here goes the story so I would always compliment her for her beauty and made sure I didn’t try to get her mad so basically what a “nice guy” would do and so I made sure she was happy I would tell her about my struggles and my issues and she would tell everyone hers but then she told me “hey listen I need to tell you something” on the worst day I ever had and then she told me that she didn’t want a relationship because she had issues with an ex and she said all about how previous exes wasted her time from her family and friends but then and I was like ok what ever and then we kept contact because I was an idiot and hoped to get back with her and then later she got another guy and of course I got jealous and told her like wtf and she told me that she doesn’t want to talk to me because I’m just in the way of her relationship and she also said it wanted to work but i just told her like ok then but that brings up the question why didn’t you wanted us to work? And from there she told me to not talk to her for s week and then after that she told me to get out of her life which I did but I just want to know was it my fault, was it hers or was it both?

Alright.. So I've been talking with a friend of mine over chat.
I've known her for about 5 years by now and she's 5 years younger than me, so.. Pretty much like my little sister.
Like me, she's a very sarcastic person and the chat was the following..

Her: I hate school.. It's so stressful
Me: Really? Too bad for you~ I'm on vacation
Her: -.-'
Me: Wellness sure is nice
Her: -.-''
Me: Just had a massage
Her: -.-'''
Me: I love you?
Her: *sighs* Luv ya too

My girlfriend scrolled through my chats, saw that and is very angry now (and I really mean angry and jealous.. Like.. Crying and almost breaking up with me), demanding to ask this question because she thinks it's not okay to say that to female friends and wants the opinion of others to that.

I mean.. I myself believe that you should never say "I love you" to anyone but your girlfriend.. However.. Nothing would ever happen between us, so I kinda didn't think about it in that situation.