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40 + age group: Is offering to pay when a man asks you out insulting or emasculating?
I am addressing this question primarily to men (and women) in their 40s and older, because I believe it's a bit different for us, though I welcome feedback from all ages. I am 43 and he is 52. A man who I know from...
rainydaydreamaway
Xper 6 Age: 59 How to deal with a hostile and possibly jealous friend of boyfriend.
I go into a local coffee shop weekly with my boyfriend, and a young girl who works there has been acquaintances with him for a while. She's always very friendly to him but ignores me, including his name in all of the...
xoBegbiexo
Xper 5 Age: 37 Why do guys have to be more social and outgoing in order to get a girlfriend than for a girl to get a boyfriend?
Why is it always or usually like this? Guys need to go out more often than girls do in order for them to meet their future girlfriend than a girl does in order for them to meet their future boyfriend. It is frustrating...
Anonymous
(36-45) I think this girl turned me down, but she keeps sending mixed signals?
Last year, I told this female friend of mine to bring a couple of her friends to dinner with me and a few of my guy friends. At that dinner, I met this girl, "Kate". Kate went abroad soon after for a semester, so...
play-wright-boy
Xper 5 Age: 38 Did he just ask me out...Through text?!
My crush and I were supposed to go with a bunch of friends on a road trip to the mountains to ski/snowboard, but because there was this storm warning on the weather channel, I wasn't allowed to go when we were supposed to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it possible to have a girlfriend but have no friends?
I stopped trusting people a long time ago after a HS incident. The friends who I thought were my friends all left me. They cut off all connections to me - Changed their numbers, stopped inviting me out, stopped talking to...
Anonymous
(36-45) First comes love, then comes marriage...
For most of us, either our parents were not together when growing up, or, when they were, they were married. Marriage is a formalization of a relationship that has its meaning negotiated among the couple, the local...
pk123
Xper 5 Age: 45 He's very touchy feely - is he interested?
I bumped into a guy I met a couple of weeks ago randomly at a local bar recently and although we did not talk for long at our initially meeting we ended up talking quite a bit at the bar. We were both there with different...
Anonymous
(36-45) I think he likes me, but the age difference is making me second guess it.
There's this guy that works at my local video store, & he's always making eye contact with me & smiling. Whenever I go to the counter he makes sure he's the one serving, & I when I come to return DVDs he always strikes up...
Anonymous
(30-35) Friendships; do you think a normal/healthy person can get left behind in friendships and it becomes cyclical?
I.e. when an 18 year old guy who is very good looking, handsome, tough and very witty goes to a series of foreign schools with foreign people of different wavelengths. And then he simply has few friends to begin with in a...
Anonymous
(36-45) What's Up With His Actions? Was he flirting with me or was just trying to be friendly?
Well ok, I think I'm gonna share it even if I find it CORNY. Thanks to the anonymity of the web :) There's just this guy who won't disappear in my thoughts even though I haven't seen him for quiet sometime... I met him...
Anonymous
(36-45) What is your worst emotional baggage? PLEASE DON'T BE ANONYMOUS
We all have some, if not you're extremely lucky, some worse than others, I have quite a bit myself and it's hard to pick but the 2 (Was too hard to pick one, maybe you pick) that stand out for me are: I stopped talking...
HerBeautifulBoy
Xper 5 Age: 34 Have you ever committed vandalism/trespassing and what is the worst/best story of your escapade?
Wish I could add a poll :( Anyway yeah only a few times and then a while ago got with the wrong crowd and peer pressure turned me a bit bad and eventually somehow though I became the leader through a series of...
HerBeautifulBoy
Xper 5 Age: 34 I feel like she cheated on me. Should I break up with her, or is this too rash?
I recently did a program for school in another country and early on in it I was very attracted to one girl, with whom I slept with the first night we went out (With our groups of friends) together. We continued hooking up...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it REALLY this COMPLICATED?
So bear with me hear it goes. I went to a concert about two weeks ago and afterwards went to the local bar. Upon walking in a girl was totally eying me so I approached her and we began to chat. We exchange information and...
TheTruth
Xper 5 Age: 49 One For The Record
I recently had to write a paper for class that consisted of an interview amongst a married person. And there's so many posts of breaking-up and heartbreak that I wanted to share something positive. This is an interview of...
The-Nash
Explorer Age: 42 Romanian girl?
I have just started learning cooking in a local school and my first day of school - the instructor introduced me to all the students as they had already started their lessons before me. I happened to be the second man in...
dardaros
Xper 5 Age: 54 I think an exotic dancer is into me...? How can I tell?
So to start this off, I'd like you to know that I'm not just some guy that goes to the club trying to get his jollies off. I'm actually a local musician and am friends with some people that work there and some dj's. One...
kao721
Xper 5 Age: 39 Guys, Gays, married woman, and 18 year old nephew
Question for men, would you be offended if you received these emails from your married Aunt. First email: There was a newspaper article in the Newspaper today on that movie you and xxxx are going to be in, the "xxxxxx."...
Anonymous
(36-45) Confidence: Life's Game-Changer
Before I begin, I just wanted to say that I was influenced to write this piece by reading another one on this site titled You Can't Fake Confidence , written by Cool-Relax . Thanks for the inspiration! First, a...
NMMan
Guru Age: 42 