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She broke up with me after 11 months because she had some doubts. We've met up a few times over the past 2 months. The last time we hung out was her breaking no contact after 3 days by drunk dialing me at 2am, me picking her up, her saying how much she loves and misses me (said the same thing the following morning when sober), us spending the entire following day together (PDA, I love you's etc). She told me that she sees a life with me but wants to settle into the decision. She also said that she is afraid she is making the wrong decision but again, says she needs to "settle into the decision" in order to see if this is the right or wrong decision. The plan is to go no contact and she will reach out to me down the road if she changes her mind (in the mean time I work to move on). She re-activated her account on match. com last week and then deactivated it three days later (I assume she wasn't ready plus she saw my account was active). While I am going on dates via match, I am not going to lose all hope with this relationship. We are 16 days no contact, how long do I wait until I break the no contact? Going indefinite is too difficult. Basically, I don't want to rush her but at the same time I can't just sit and wonder, even though I am trying to meet other girls.

This girl and I have known each other for close to 3 weeks. We had met online. From the get-go, we fell for each other's personality. As we started asking each other out, we got less stressed and nervous. We've gone out twice now (don't judge the frequency haha, we were comfortable with this).

We're still pretty nervous over the idea of when we would start holding hands. She said "next time" when I first asked her 2 weeks ago on our first meet-up. But yet it seems like a very major thing when I innocently asked "When's our zeroth anniversary" and she answered "When we start holding hands :p". So it's like... handholding = gf?

So the question now is, when should I ask her to be my girlfriend officially? Should I wait until we started behaving like a couple (e. g. flirting, PDA) before I pop the question? I'm really confused about how to put her at ease and take a step forward..