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I work with this guy, who I've always had a crush on but never said it until I made it painfully clear a few weeks ago. He talked to me on a messaging system at work and we were doing some serious flirting. He made it pretty obvious to me he likes me too... He once made a comment about sleeping with me and I told him I wasn't just the type of girl to just sleep with someone at work and that we'd have to hang out outside of work. We never see each other outside of work and we live an hour away from each other but that doesn't bug me... He always kept talking about putting some time off in to hang out with me for a day but I told him that wasn't necessary and we could make it work outside of working hours. Well, I've been trying and he really hasn't. I keep inviting him to events and leaving myself open for conversation but he alway has some kind of excuse. He apologizes, never checks his facebook, has my phone number but never texts me (I don't have his and dont want to seem too pressing). I just don't know what to think, or what to do... He made a comment about him being from Denmark (which I of course didn't understand if this should worry me... I'm American) but one friend says it sounds like he's hiding something, and another one was unsure but thought he had been dating someone for over four years. I don't want to go off of rumors but I don't know what else to go off of, because he insists on flirting with me, strictly at work, and then drops off the face of the earth when he leaves. I like this guy, in fact, I like almost everything about him, and he's so similar to me, but I'm so incredibly confused and I can't share these concerns at work because it would take my focus off of the work that I do. What should I do?

There is a 20 year old guy friend at my school and I do not know if he truly is a virgin. I have been asking him how many partners he has had lately and never seemed to get an answer. I know when I am with a group of friends he either tries to ignore the topic or he just acts like he knows everything about sex. But, what he says is more so stuff that is considered common knowledge. Today, I kept pressing the issue on how many partners he has had and he finally told me in private after I promised to not tell anyone, that he has had none. I know he can trust me because I have told him some of my secrets, such as being a virgin, but this was several months ago. He also is extremely smart and wants to get into medical school, but is also quiet. At first I thought he was just lying about being a virgin, but he still persisted. I know he said in front of friends that he has condoms when on dates, so I asked him about this. He responded that he has them just in case. However, he does not seem to be the type to go out a lot. Do you think he is truly a virgin or is he just lying?

So.. I have like 6 bosses. I work for apple so I guess its that way. Anyways one of my bosses whom I've never even talked to is acting super weird. Whenever he sees me he stares, he's even tried to stand near me to get attention, we (along with a few other coworkers) got in an elevator today together and he tried to show off in front of me. Before we went in the elevator he kept staring at me and trying to be all cute by pressing the elevator button all weird. Anyways, after we got off the elevator he was leaving and he stared at me as I walked into the area I work. Why is he doing this?
Side Note: My best friend who also works there told me he slept with these two ladies so that they could get promoted... Is he trying to do that with me?

Long story short, I was with a bible study group, I felt they were ignoring me, and now they ditched me on Saturday. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask me.

"This is going against my good judgements. But sometimes, I feel that good judgments are over-rated and sometimes you need to warn others of impending heartache. Listen to me, don't listen to me, laugh at me, don't laugh at me... I don't give a rats arse anymore.

To those of you that went to our last life group, you were talking about this "crazy girl" who rightfully so, saw right through the leader and the old attendants of the filegroup. I wrongfully defended you and told her to get lost. Oh, how wrong I was. She was in fact, extremely correct about you. I was just too stupid to realise this.

Now, it's my turn to be the apparent "crazy" girl like how you all were gloating about it on Lifegroup. Wow, good Christians you all are.

I have been nothing but a good attendee the past couple of years and I thought the life group leader and some others were pretty good friends. I was a good contributor, I was supportive of everyone and I was just all round an awesome chick to have. Some of you met me though I am a little intense, I am confident you thought I was awesome. I appreciated the groups intellect, humor, and wit and I thought I had found a good life-group for me. Initially, it was a good life group, not going to lie.

Then some new people joined and she did things to betray my trust and are the type to make even Sir Gallahad and Mother Teresa swear. But I just had to grit my teeth and bear it. I voiced my opinions and suddenly, I'M the bad guy now.

But it's ok. That is not my real point of concern.

After years of some of you pressing me and pressing me and pushing me, enough is enough. I just want to warn you that if you are looking for a Lifegroup that is caring, you are wasting your time. The leader doesn