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We are coworkers and at first use to text all the time. Hhe doesn't show his emotions at all he pretends he's super hard and doesn't need anyone and doesn't like anyone and doesn't need any girl. he has huge issues opening up to people and says he doesn't trust anyone and that when he trust people bad things happen. But u can tell he puts up a front. So recently we hung out and I gave him oral sex, he said I was the best oral sex he's ever received. And then after that he has been distant. Not distant but doesn't text first, he will answer me but just doesn't text first. I'd say he tried to hit and quit but he acts super shy and awkward with me and looks at me in a very lustful way and shy way and you can tell he is thinking I look sexy and likes me. You can TELL he likes me just by the way he acts when we are together. He invited me to hang out on his birthday because I asked. I then brought him a very expensive birthday gift and he looked extremely happy and like he liked me so much ( but quickly hid it) and just said you know your really great. Then I go home try and text him and he's rude again just not answering. It's like the more deep we get into eachother the more he just acts like he doesn't wanna talk. We agreed he'd have to tell me about his life if I got him a present ( I was gonna get him one anyway) he said okay but looked terrified, now he's ignoring me.

This guy and I had been dating exclusively for little over a month. The first time we had sex was one week ago and he called me by his ex's name. He says he only did that because ever since he broke up with her he hadn't reached that level of physical and emotional intimacy with anyone else. Ok fair enough, I'm not mad anymore, things are back to normal.

2 days later though he starts acting weird. Stops asking to meet up, stops trying to make conversation, at this point I'm the only one making an effort. If I didn't text him he would spend the entire day without talking to me.

Last night I told him I wasn't happy about that and he flat out ignored me. We attended the same party, I'm pretty positive he saw me there multiple times and pretended he didn't know me. I dumped him via text this morning.