Guys, have you ever waited to have sex with a woman for fear that she would get her thrill and walk away? Likely not. Because women are not wired to "hit it and quit it" so to speak in the dating scene right? And if they want just sex, they are less likely to lie about it. Now why is that?
Because the way that a woman feels about a man is not primarily influenced by whether she gets sex from him or not.
Ladies, I have a message for you: Men are wired the same way.
Whether you have sex with a man on his first date or you wait until marriage; it will not change whether he loves you or not.
If a man has sex with you and walks away, he was always feeling that way to begin with regarding you. On the other hand, if a man has a true connection with you and you have sex with him on the first date, he will still be with you regardless.
Men and Women have every right to have sex when they want to. Nobody should judge. But let's stop pretending that 3 date or 5 date rules are about making sure a lover will stay or not.
I met a girlfriend I dated for a long time once. We went on a date. I wasn't attracted. Then I saw her artwork and was blown away and inspired. I kissed her. By the second date we had sex. I didn't love her. But I kept having sex because it was good and she was funny. Overtime, we started dating-because why not? Then I fell in love with her.
If I hadn't have had sex with her would I have fallen in love with her? I dont know.
Ladies, if you want to have sex with a man. Protect yourself but by all means have sex! Guys, if there is a cute girl you know that likes you and you are unsure of your feelings? Have sex! Discover what the bond is.
I recently made out with a woman that liked me. I did it because I was curious. I wondered if sexuality would make me like her. Instead, I had fun but felt no deep connection. Sex is pleasurable. But love is deeper than sex. Sex simplifies my feelings-but that's just me. What about you?
LIFE IS SHORT.