abstinence gives you willpower and it's useful in most cases. if a guy is trying to get in your pants on the first date he's probably not adequate and probably just a womaniser. users leave if you make em wait
Nah, As he said, either he is truly interested in you or not, making him wait or giving it up early won't make much difference. Actually making him wait is probably worse, as even if a guy is truly interested, he isn't going to wait for ever, he will eventually leave.
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I don't agree or disagree. It's what works for each individual couple
I personally would wait at least a month. To actually have some kind of serious relationship first.
I don't see the need for stupid sex.
abstinence gives you willpower and it's useful in most cases. if a guy is trying to get in your pants on the first date he's probably not adequate and probably just a womaniser. users leave if you make em wait
Good take!
My opinion: don't have sex because the other demands it. Do it because BOTH want it.
the problem is if you end up having sex with an asshole which many women like. Now you're addicted to this guy.
Wow, judging by the opinions people posted on this I see there's a ton of stuck up people on here.
Life is short as you said and we can die as a major sinner if we follow you, even Westerners don't care. No, thanks.
Thank God ! Someone who finally gets it, Bravo ! Well done.
In my case they become my girlfriends so that they can get to suck it. Fact.
Perils of trusting someone with your nudes.
World is too sexualized
The world has always been sexualized. You could go to the middle east though. Practice sharia law.
If you wait, you can weed out users.
Smart.
You're not the only one getting used? Sex is a two way street
Nah, As he said, either he is truly interested in you or not, making him wait or giving it up early won't make much difference. Actually making him wait is probably worse, as even if a guy is truly interested, he isn't going to wait for ever, he will eventually leave.
@bekkesmash when I said wait, I didn't mean for all of eternity. I mean until there is real commitment and you are pretty sure it's for real.
Thats still too long, ill assume you aren't really sexually attracted to me, and ill leave.
@bekkesmash I think I would want someone like-minded though
Most guys would leave, you are only hurting yourself with how you go about dating.
No i will wait till i marry
I agree
How stupid...
to avoid cheating while dating :)
the most i'll wait for sex is 2 days.
Great take!
Yes life is really short
To each their own
Thank You