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Whenever I was dealing with problems with women my friends usually told me to act stoic, tough or I like I don’t give a shit (usually good advice). Confront the problem directly/quickly and then back off and do my thing. This often includes just not contacting her if she’s being unfair.

However a few have chastised me if I was acting douchy in my youth. I did have one friend chew me out in one of the rare moments I was in the wrong and he witnessed it. Again it was a very rare incident.

Anyway guys really don’t like to hear other guys bitch too much (in person) about women. Although it’s often healthy and necessary but the act itself can come off as feminine if it happens too much.

However I’ve noticed that women usually have a more tainted lens and assume the worst about the other guy when they give advice to women. Some of this is just natural given the loyalty/protectiveness they have for other women. This is also at times justified. Sometimes the other guy really is being a dbag and the girl shouldn’t tolerate it.

However women sometimes give tainted advice as way to get revenge on a 3rd party guy because they themselves were hurt by an unrelated incident at some point. As if seeing a friend being bitchy to another guy it’s somehow “evening the score” by proxy. Or they might even do this out of secret jealousy. They would feel better if their friend was single/lonely since they are unhappy with their own predicament. They would encourage a break up.

Thoughts?

Lyft deactivated me because a passenger complained I was making sexual advances. I have dash cam footage proving my innocence. Lyft refused to view the footage and upheld my deactivation. I took Lyft to court. Litigation is still ongoing, but the evidence is overwhelmingly in my favor and the judge is pissed at Lyft and their attorney. I sued both Lyft and the passenger making up the false allegations. I also prosecuted the passenger in criminal court. I am suing Lyft for $100,000 in emotional damages, lost wages, attorney fees and enabling criminal activity. I am suing the passenger for $20,000 for emotional damages, lost wages and am seeking criminal convictions for willful and unlawfully inaccurate statements, harassment and stalking (she obtained my real phone number and kept making unwelcome calls). For the civil side, the settlement I am offering for Lyft is $50,000, a written apology and a guarantee that the passenger will be banned from Lyft for life. The settlement I am willing to take from the passenger is a ban from ALL rideshare apps (Lyft, Uber and any equivalents that may come up). I am still pursuing the criminal charges. I already went to the passenger's place of employment (an IT firm). I showed them the dash cam footage and phone records proving I NEVER contacted her outside the ride, never made any inappropriate comments and stayed professional the whole time. I also warned them that, should they keep her as an employee, I WILL leak her activity to the public and warn ALL their competitors of the type of people they hire. Her company said that, if everything I showed them is true, she WILL lose her job. Being banned from Lyft might not seem like a big deal, but I am trying to become a cop and do not need these accusations against me. Given what she cost me and could have cost me, I think wrecking her life where I can is only fair.