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I tend to only want to have sex with guys until im sure we will have a steady relationship. I don't want to rush things, and complicate feelings with sex. Id rather get to know you, then if we both seem to like where its heading then ill have sex with you. Whats your thoughts on waiting? This is for legitimate relationships only, not random hook ups.

So e hang out a lot but with other people. i want to hang out alone but he wants to know what i 'want'. i don't 'want' anything but to hang out alone and see how it goes. but he might think i'm just evading and that means i don't like him. i don't want pressure of calling it a date, but i don't want him thinking i don't like him. wish he could just hang out and not worry about what it is.

we've known each other 16 months but only hung out half that time. 3 months when we met and 3 months recently. about 3 times a week. we spent time together alone in the beginning but i didn't know how to go slow, as in i thought either you have sex or don't get involved, and i wasn't ready for sex. so i didn't get involved.

i understand things better now and i want to try again. i don't want to rush but its been over a year so i also don't want to waste time.

do you think i wanna date or hang out?