Search Results: scared of commitment

Would you breakup with someone for not having sex?

i have never had sex. My boyfriend said he has never either. We have been dating for over 2 months and I know he wants to have sex. I am still hesitant because I have slight commitment issues and scared for if I got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he telling me the truth?

My guy and I recently had a heavy conversation about finally putting a label after a yr and half of these shenanigans. I confronted him that I feel like he's hiding me cause even if he really likes me, he wants to look...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He is scared of commitment?

Would you date or give a man who is scared of commitment a chance?

Anonymous

(36-45)

He feels uncomfortable meeting my sister?

So, this guy who likes me (I told him I like him too, but we know we're not gonna work out now) gets really uncomfortable when I hint that my sister will hang out with us (meaning usually 2-4 girls plus him). He's only...

cooties

Xper 2 Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Whyyy am I having such a hard time getting over a guy I've only dated for a few weeks (who is also acting like a jerk now)?

I don't understand what's going on with me. I don't usually fall that easily. Hell, I think I haven't been in love in at least 3 years. I enjoy being single. I am perfectly happy without a guy. At least I thought so until...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys who are totally into me at first always pull back as soon as I start liking them?

This has happened to me too many times now to think it's just a coincidence. I go on one or maybe two dates with a guy, and he is already totally into me. Saying things like never met anyone like me, and making plans for...

Jessy12

Xper 5 Age: 44

Break Up & Divorce

Why can't he just leave me alone?

My ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. The reason why has changed just about every time I ask him why. Well whenever I tell him not to talk to me if he is just going to play with my feelings he gets upset, if I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When to say I love you in an exclusive- dating relationship, not officially bf & gf?

I've been dating this guy for about 4 months. We go to the same college and I'm graduating this year. We text all the time, hang out a lot, everything is great. Sure, we get in petty arguments but other than that...

kspillanxx

Xper 5 Age: 35

Did I mess up my chances?

There is a guy I work with that i have liked since he started. I constantly flirt shamelessly with him more than anyone else there and i watch out for him; when i have time, i go out of my way to help him out and he does...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are commitment issues a real thing? Could I be commitment phobia?

I feel really confused. I've had several bad experiences with men. I was in a long term relationship of 3 years and since then nothing has worked out for me. I always blamed the men for not wanting committens but now I'm...

lovelust89

Explorer Age: 36

Is he scared to get hurt, or is he just a jerk? Totally confused girl needs help please?

Hey guys, I don't think I have ever been this confused about a guy (and I've been confused about guys A LOT ;-) ) We are only in the early stages of dating, and the complicated thing is that I am just visiting his town,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

What birthday gift should I give to the guy I'm dating?

we`ve been dating for 8 months. Still not official couple and no commitment frm him. Its his bday this weekend and he invited me and I don't know what to give him. I want to give him an expensive gift but then i keep...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think when even his friends are surprised he friend zoned you?

We had a thing. No sex. He was constant talking to me. Seemed very into me. I'm also nearly twenty years younger. Then he suddenly friend zoned me. Said im Amazing and very hot but just wants to be friends. He sent me tis...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend wants a baby but we are too young, How can I tell her no and what else should I say?

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years. We are 24 years old and just yesturday she brought up "it would be so nice if we can have a babu together now". This scared me lol because we are too young to have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Anyone else scared of commitment/marriage?

Marriage freaks me out and I steer clear of it. My boyfriend and I have a child, own a place together and have been together over 4 years and I love him dearly. Most people think he is my husband or they call me by his...

ButtHoleSandwich

Explorer Age: 35

Should you have to convince someone to be together?

My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years. I was getting pretty emotional and realized it's because I want us to be permanent. I want to live together, get married and maybe have a child (I've never wanted children...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are we worth the struggle? Zodiac compatibility included. help?

My Chart: (F) Sun: Capricorn23°11' Ascendant: Taurus 14°51' Moon:Gemini19°30' II:Gemini 13°04' Mercury: Aquarius 10°37' III:Cancer 6°06' Venus:Sagittarius6°20' IV:Cancer 29°00' Mars:Virgo1°53'R V:Leo26°00'...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My Chart: (F) Sun: Capricorn23°11' Ascendant: Taurus 14°51' Moon:Gemini19°30' II:Gemini 13°04' Mercury: Aquarius 10°37' III:Cancer 6°06' Venus:Sagittarius6°20' IV:Cancer 29°00'

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How may I be proactive in making my relationship with my girlfriend to build a stronger committed relationship?

My girlfriend and I have been together for a year, and I can safely, honestly, and trustingly say that I love my girlfriend more than I've ever loved any other female I've been in a romantic/committed relationship with. I...

Isaif370

Xper 5 Age: 32