Search Results: scared of getting hurt

Need help with girl problems, please help?

So, I met a girl seven weeks ago and our first date was a lot of fun! We went on several dates, and it was always a good time for both of us. She opened up to me and told me some deep personal things, and I opened up to...

chesnekov

Xper 4 Age: 29

Why won't he lie to me so I can let him go?

We met when he was in town for summer, we decided to continue our relationship in long distance. It was going well in the beginning even though the long distance thing was rough, until I found out that he was married...

vanessious

Xper 4 Age: 33

I don't know if we should just break up? He tells me that I'm free to break up with him?

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and eight months. I've always been a really shy girl never had a boyfriend so of course when my time would come to date I would be totally lost about what to do same for my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should we break up!!! I need help?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I tell my ex girlfriend I wouldn't hurt her?

my ex girlfriend had a long relationship before me in wich her boyfriend cheated on her. now we broke up after a couple months right when we started to ger closer , we didn't have a single fight or anything and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She likes me, is scared of relationships, doesn't know what to do, AND there is another guy?

chesnekov

Xper 4 Age: 29

How do I stop myself from having feelings for her?

I have been in love before and I know that nothing good comes from it. I have a friend who I'm really close to, but I can't help but start having feelings for her, and it scares me. I have to work hard on not feeling for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

What is with this society with boobs?

Okay so... I've always been confused about this but... why is so many people into boobs? Even girls themselves seem to like thm sometimes too! Also... why many girls dont like others to touch their boobs? I can...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I Ask Him Out For Coffee And Conversation?

It's been almost 3 years since I have been with a man. But I have lived alone for 10 years. I really don't know much about the men personality. I'm out of touch. I didn't want anybody because of a bad marriage long ago,...

nakesia

Xper 5 Age: 53

Education & Career

I want to change my department but I'm scared of my manager?

I have been in this department as my first job and after being here for a year + I can't stand it anymore it's taking its toll on my health psychically and psychologically. And he is on top of the pyramid when it comes to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why won't my boyfriend take my virginity?

weve been together for two years and we’ve done everything except for actual intercourse, he just won't take my virginity... he says he's scared to hurt me... and that he will feel guilty... how do i convince him that its...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys! What if you told a girl you were dating that you talk to other people & then she reacted like this?

Say for instance you & this girl been dating for a roughly 3months. The two of you never gotten into any serious arguments. You never doubted her, trust her, and confine in her about a lot. The both of you were intimate...

FashionistaChick

Xper 7 Age: 35

Why does this keep happening w guys?

I've been dating this guy briefly for a few weeks, and we met months ago. He said he loves me, i told him i need more time. We talk on the phone and facetime every day, and yesterday on one of our dates i told him i love...

Justagirl1234567

Xper 2 Age: 27

Education & Career

How to get over someone who hurt your family?

My family moved for this really good job opportunity we thought. Turned out the docto was cheating people (overcharging , giving surgerys they did not need etc.) when my dad called him out on it he started yelling at him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hung up on "ex", making a fool of myself, so I've decided to just lay all my feelings out there so I can move on/not expecting anything... advice?

background: I'm very guarded/commitment-phobic & had never been in a relationship (I'm 22) & met this guy, we were connected immediately. I kept him at a sexual level but he pushed for more commitment, I gave it a chance...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Getting mixed messages. Is he into me or not? Am I just being paranoid?

Been dating a guy for a few months. He's been in 2 long term relationships and has been quite badly hurt, as have I, so we really understood each other's anxieties. He admitted straight away that he's Aspergers and that...

Starbuck6666

Xper 4 Age: 40

Is it wrong to choose to be alone?

I seem to pick really bad men that never treated me with care, it was always about them and ways they'd use me. Each time I gave my heart to someone it was thrown back in my face and I was laughed at, so I decided to stop...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, I've got a major problem goin with my girlfriend , any help?

Well , I've got a major problem goin with my girlfriend.. she's shy.. very shy however we beeen dating for like 3 years so far , planning to get married sooner at first she used to obey me , pay attention to...

Barryy

Xper 5 Age: 39