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I was sexually abused by my step-grandfather when I was about 5 or 6 years old. I'm now 17, turning 18 very soon. My parents have always known about the abuse (I told them soon after it happened), I saw a councillor, and I didn't see my step grandfather for about 3 or 4 years. After that, we gradually started inviting him back into my life. While the issue has kind of been swept under the rug since, my parents have not forgotten what happened. Anyway, we had my grandparents over for lunch today (for Easter) and I was wearing a denim skirt with a shirt that came down to my elbows. After they left, my mum told me off for wearing the skirt (which she thinks was too short and tight) in front of him, saying it was inappropriate given what happened all those years ago. I would like to think she's just trying to protect me because she cares about me and loves me, but part of me also feels that I shouldn't be told off for wearing clothes that make me feel good about myself (it was also a warm day today, so a skirt was very weather appropriate). Given that I was the one who was abused, I don't see why I still get in trouble for wearing certain clothes around him. Also, my mum saw what I was wearing at least an hour before they arrived. If she wanted me to wear something else, couldn't she have just told me then? I would have changed and then she wouldn't have had to get mad at me after. What do you think? Feel free to post your opinion as well as vote X