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Often you hear women how they're waiting for the right guy for years to lose virginity with or to have a sex with. For years they're rejecting guys and telling them stories about love, compatibility, mutual respect and other other sugared stories which you can see in movies or in your favorite romance book. For years they're going on dates and torture their dates for weeks or months before anything sexual happens, if it happens. But usually it doesn't.

But what happens in reality? Finally they lose virginity to a guy who they met on first night - usually some party or similar social event happening in night time. Usually they do it with a super hot guy, who bangs girls for a hobby, in a sports manner, and in most cases without any protection and on a weird place like toilette, in a car on parking lot, basement etc... If you asked a girl what happened, she would tell you that "she felt connected with", "liked him", "she thought it was a start of relationship", "it just happened..." and similar stories, that apparently didn't apply to any date before. However, if you ask guy what happened, he would tell you that he met a girl, they did some chit chat, drank something and then they had fu*ked. Just another virgin to devirginate, or just another woman to bang, just another day in the office.

Conclusion: most women wait for a guy, who is hot enough, to fuc* them. All the stories they tell about love and relationships are pure BS.

I'm about to turn 20 and I'm still a virgin and never had a girlfriend for personal reasons, but I want just 5 more years to go IGMOW (I'M Going My Own Way) and better myself and become the strongest version of myself. Over that course of time I want to do things like become a successful entrepreneur, discover more of myself, strengthen my mental strength, become a more positive person, and take care of personal issues like my bipolar depression. I don't really mind going another 5 years solo, but I can't help but wonder how will this effect me when I do start dating. In case your wondering, no, I do not plan on sleeping around and getting sucked into the hookup-culture cesspool, I'm actually thinking about waiting until marriage to start having sex but I'm not sure yet. Also, I'm not a part of the MGTOW movement, I'm IGMOW.