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My sister is turning 23 and her boyfriend just turned 28. They've been dating for 2 years now and have lived together for almost a year now, he told me in private that he's thinking about proposing soon. I don't know if 2 years of dating is enough, but yet again my step dad proposed to my mom after less than 2 years and they've been married for 5 years now. Plus he's 28 years old and I think it's about time he get settled in. Also something you should know is that they're both virgins who've been waiting until marriage, I'm a 20 year old virgin myself but the guy held it in for 28, DAMN!! So is this a good idea?

Right now I'm 20 and have never been on a date before, but I'm planning on spending the next 5 years on my life focusing on my long term success. So I think I'll start dating when I'm 25, but when I do start dating I only want to date women who are around 20 years old and here's why.
If I'm ever going to have kids I don't want to have them until I'm at least 30. I feel like I'll have the finances and maturity to raise a child by then, and if I'm 30 then she'll be around 25 so we don't have to worry about her fertility, and even if she doesn't want children until later, cool, at least I'm not being rushed into parenthood before I feel like I'm ready.
Also I'm a virgin and considering on waiting until marriage, and most other available women who are waiting until marriage are around that age. I feel like I'd just be happier with that relationship.

Sorry if this sounds a bit off, I tried to write this earlier with better wording but my computer spazed out and deleted the whole thing so I had to start all over.

Some dating standards are just beyond me. I don't care about name calling when one does not date but browsing GAG i find some unacceptable dating standards, that just make me smile to be single. Or turn me towards MGTOW.

Although deep down I know not all members of the opposite sex share the same (ludicrous) standards, however at least a visible majority of these standards are just not something, that I can deal with.

I remember someone saying, that relationships are about what you can give and not about what you can take. What if you can't give anything, does that mean you ought to stay single and just not even bother dating at all even if you are working on bettering yourself and you're in the middle of your 20s? Then people genuinely get shocked or shame you on why you're a virgin, who never had a relationship at that point in life.

I mean I don't really care about this but the logic behind it makes me scratch my head figuratively.

Perhaps self respect plays a significant role today as opposed to entitlements. Perhaps now more than ever before.