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By clubbing, I don't mean strip club. The only club I am talking about is where men and women go dressed nice and dance to super loud music. Anyways am I missing much cause I still haven't gone? Surprisingly of the ton of women and men I asked so far, a big percent tell me they think it sucks or it is no big deal. What do you think? And tell me why you think what you think.

I met a woman online a little over a month ago (S), and even though we vibed really well, like any couple getting started; we had our problems. I think we basically like/liked each other though. Last weekend, things got weird over plans to meet at a nightclub

Because S lives about a half hour drive away, visiting her isn't a totally trivial thing, but it's not a big deal either. I don't know anyone where S lives, so if I drive there, it's not like I have tons of people to chill with. So I drive up to the club where we were meeting. She walks in, dressed like a knock-out. She greets me with a hug, we walk up to the bar together, and then she tells me that she needs to use the bathroom. After about 15-ish minutes, I text her to ask if everything is okay. She opens the message, but doesn't respond. I text her a couple more times, joking around a little bit, because I figured that maybe she was having a freak out moment (dance clubs are weird like that; they can bring out stuff in people if the vibe isn't right). After 45 minutes, I decide that I'm going to go find something else to do and try to enjoy myself without her, because it seems like something weird is going on, and I don't want to spoil my night.

Well wouldn't you know it, but I see S standing at the bar, talking with some friends. So I walk up to her, and she kind gives me an aloof "hey," and introduces me to her allegedly cool friend and the friend's boyfriend. I say my name and then go to shake the boyfriend's hand, and he just gives me some lame bs handshake, and I don't think he even told me his name, or if he did; he mumbled it. Then, the supposedly cool friend gives me a really sketchy nod and says "hi..." in like a "what are you even doing here," sort of draw. So it's super obvious that neither of these people want to know me, at all. Then S asks if she can hang out with her friend alone. So naturally, I just told S that if she was going to hang out with her friend, I would just head home.