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When a cultural practice is considered harmful for women like temple prostitution, or catholic sexual abuse and it causes outrage in the populace and laws are made against it, but why doesn't that apply here?

I feel sorry for these men (regardless of whether they initiated) and I think being miserable forever because of a mistake is too horrible. Will there be some cultural change, emotional support for these men in the near future? Men aren't made out of steel.

I think a life of misery for someone else is terrible and saying they deserved it is not freedom but chaos and taking advantage of those who suffer in the chaos.

I feel society's message to boys sets them up for this more than they ever set themselves up for it. After reading the accounts about men in open relationships I feel averse to being turned on by women, it brings a feeling of disgust and revulsion towards women in me kinda like when women find they're new boyfriend is an ex child rapist.

If society is like this then i don't see the point in any relationship. Not that society would miss me.

I started talking to this girl I was familiar with from high school a few months ago and we seemed to click instantly. We both recently got out of long term relationships and got hurt. It felt we basically got into a relationship, long distance, because she was a few hours away for school.
But she opened up about a lot of very personal things, like how she felt in her family. Her past sexual experience, and relationships among other things.
But when we actually met up, she said everything sounded great and she felt ready, but she still isn't over her ex boyfriend. He really hurt her and she feels she needs closure still.
She's severly limited how much we talk, and I'm not sure what to do and what to say. Help?
I don't understand why she'd open up so much and then be like this