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I've been talking to this guy for a week and we have lots in common, I don't think I've ever had much in common with someone especially meeting them online. We are both honest and open with each other which I like. I told him I think we have a connection and he agrees we do and he wants to take things slow. He told me something kind of personal, and he said he never told anyone before, not even his past relationships. His main focus is his job and he would talk to me during work when he has the chance. The thing I'm questioning is he says he is a sexual person and our convo has been somewhat sexual and he tells me he is lonely and I don't know what to say to that. Then he says "I wish someone was here" then that's when it gets sexual. He has sent me a shirtless pic before and he told me he's getting comfortable. Sometimes I wouldn't hear from him for a a bit and check in and he's told me his job is his priority and that work is crazy. He still wants to talk to me and that I have to understand that work is crazy. Which I do. Anyways what do you think? Ps. I asked him about meeting up and we live quite a distance and he said he didn't want me to go around where he lives because it's not safe and he wants me safe. Something along the lines like that. A couple times he would say "sweet dreams" when going to bed.

Summary: My boyfriend and I have been talking engagement for a while. We've looked at rings, and we're both serious.
I've always wanted to be asked this way. 'After a romantic night we find some privacy and my boyfriend surprises me with an animal. And on the tag it's a heart that reads "Will you marry me?"'



At first I wanted a silver Persian kitten with green eyes.

Then a bulldog puppy.

Then, I decided I didn't want a fancy pedigree pet, I wanted an older shelter pet, someone that had been in the shelter forever, or someone on the kill list.


But that's just not possible right now because I have rats, and I don't want to add a pet because of them, rent increase, and my roommate has a dog.

Everyone thinks I want something crazy and grand. And he fears if he doesn't get it 'right' I will be disappointed and may even say no (which I would never).

I don't think I want anything over the top, we've always said we wanted to get pets together.

Now, I don't know what I want though because that's always been my dream. A pet and a fiance :) But I won't ask for it because I won't inconvenience him.

Any ideas, he really wants to know. We plan on not getting married for at least a year and a bit. And we plan on living together next August once I graduate.

Big no's
-crowds
-at dinner

Big Yes
-private
-captured on camera (preferably to look at forever)