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Okay, I started making conversation with a female Barista at a coffee shop. I am aware of the whole its not a good idea to talk to: waitresses, bartenders ect. ect. because its there job to be friendly. So after some friendly banter I asked a friend about her. He said she was married so I aborted mission, yet something told me she wasn't. So I pursued. I started to ask her questions and introduced myself. She would smile and we would exchange laughs and friendly, open conversation. I would catch her looking at me and she would come across the counter to where I was to do tasks and close the distance. But I never looked her direction. She did the look my way, kick the legs, mirror and smile. I thought I read the signs correct. I made it up in my head I was going to ask her what was up next week. She always smiled and gave strong eye contact, then mentioned she had an ex. I thought it w clear to ask her for her number. I told myself the next week I would ask for her number. The next week came and she flipped 365. Was distant, short, and did not return questions with questions. I thought because her boss. I was suddenly confused. I picked myself up and talked to her again at the counter making her laugh and getting a sweet look and that seemed to perk up herself.
The next week came and talked to her but she was still a little distant. I told myself I would get her number and then asked her out to lunch. She said she had a boyfriend but would do lunch. I asked how to contact her, not wanting to mess up her relationship. She laughed and wrote the number down and said," Lets do lunch." I text her during the weekend and received two short text. I returned there four days later and she didn't make eye contact on purpose but was not defensive. Even asked someone else to wait on me for my refill. I left saying I hope everything was not weird and I'm sorry. She smiles saying, "Everything was cool. I asked a friend and she said she might be making me work. Thought por favor...