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I'm turning 30 in six months' time, and in spite of searching all this time, still haven't found a single girl through dating who was willing to commit to a relationship without demanding the world and offering me nothing in return. My family's been pressuring me to get an arranged marriage for the past decade now, and I agreed five years ago that if I hadn't found anyone for myself by the age of 30, then I'd accept defeat and agree to an arranged marriage to a girl of their choice from India (where my family's originally from). There's no way I'll be able to find a girl here in the UK who'll agree to marry me or get engaged in the next six months, and TBH the girls over here aren't really worth all the hassle and the expense anyway- none of them care about love, romance or compassion, all they care about is getting laid, and I'm sick and tired after having been rejected by thousands upon thousands of girls because I'm "too nice", "not experienced enough", and because I "care too much".
I want a good girl, one who can actually appreciate a guy who loves her and cares about her. But over here in the UK, those girls are effectively extinct. And with only 6 months left, I have to resign myself to the fact that I'm never going to find a good girl here in this country, not in such a short space of time, not when I've wasted the last 12 years exhaustively trying to find one, to no avail. So I've decided to throw caution to the wind, take one last throw of the dice, and use the cash I've saved up to go on a Mail Order Brides Romance Tour. Basically, travelling abroad to meet a few potential Mail Order Brides and their families in person (after having scouted them online- the pictures are my best personality-based picks thus far from the chat forums, and they're all 19-25), to find out which girl, if any, might be the best match- and if I really make a connection to one of them, getting engaged to her. So, which country do you think I should go on my Romance Tour in?

"I have found that younger girls are open to discussing anything and actually having new/fun experiences. Not to mention that most activities actually ARE new/fun for them and they aren't biased old hags who have constructed a series of specific expectations and likes/dislikes that they expect everyone to conform to.

I have dated up 3 years older and down a full decade younger (most recent ex was 18). I can tell you it's much more fun to have a highly sexually active partner that gets excited about everything then listen to older women whine and complain like they are post menopause (even though they haven't even started it). I hang out with crowds of all ages.

I'm 28 so I'm smack dab in the middle of this conversation bracket and I am finding that I cannot stand most people over 26. It's not even a maturity issue. There is nothing "mature" about desperately looking for a man that will provide your old used up self with expensive dates and a free mortgage, constantly repeating ancient stories or workplace gossip, or constantly making the same Facebook jokes about how you're such a wine-o and love your pet more than your own life. I get it, once a girl turns into a boring old woman she only drinks wine. Hahaha! Funny! New material please.

I'm a single dad (full custody of my only child) and I cannot stand single mothers. It has absolutely nothing to do with them having kids and everything to do with the "mom" personality and the fact that their emotional baggage/problems far, far outweigh their *actual* baggage/problems.

Older men are often not any better to hang out with either. Basically, everyone starts becoming the old annoying parent stereotype we all hated as kids. I highly doubt I will ever date anyone older than 25. I was engaged once, dodged that bullet. I never want to get married.

That said, there are some smoking hot 30 year olds... just remember, that same girl would look 200x better 10 years younger."