Search Results: ex really upsetting me

Did this guy ever like me?

I started university and for the first two months of it me and this guy had eyes on each other, he was shy but would constantly make effort to get to speak to me etc, finally in December he asked for my contact and I gave...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why did this guy I went on a date with just want to hurt and upset me?

I had started chatting to this guy online. We hit it off pretty well and I agreed to going on a date with him. Although the conversation with him felt quite sexual, I agreed to going out with him anyway. When we got on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why did this guy just want to hurt me and upset me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some men want to hurt women?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

friends with benefits doesn’t want me to sleep with anyone.. why?

So I have friends with benefits with my ex for about a while. Our sexual chemistry is always pretty good. He Didn’t contact me last year because he was in a relationship. It hit obviously cause the feelings were always...

Alejanddrraa93

Xper 4 Age: 32

Why is he upset when he never made zero effort?

I was seeing my ex again & things were great until Christmas, when he said he couldn't see me because he was broke & no fun to be around. He was still texting all the time. I felt like text buddies. I hadn't seen him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, How to handle break up with long distance ex girlfriend?

Recently, on Tuesday, I just broke up with my ex LDR girlfriend who I’ve been with for 3 years, and I also met her here (I won’t her mention name). We started off pretty good, skyping each other, and messaging each other...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Possible loss of relationship?

Ok so here it all is I have a "gf" who lives in Kentucky and she says she loves me but also loves her ex because he been there through really bad times and when I mean bad I mean bad, so anyway today is her break up...

allseeingeye

Xper 4 Age: 30

I don't know how to deal with the fact that he still talks to his ex. If it all comes from my own 'past wounds', how can I overcome my fears?

My background: 2 years in an abusive relationship. I get extremely worried/upset whenever something reminds me of situations that hurt me. E. g. my ex would keep a 'pool of girls to fish from' and use them to destroy my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Trying to be a good friend?

so I have this friend and she is dating my ex the day we broke up and I got really upset and mad at the same time and I tried to apologize and she said that we couldn't be friends anymore what should I do?

katiA150

Xper 4 Age: 28

Should I ask him to buy condoms?

So my ex husband and I recently got divorced. We’ve been separated for about a month and have decided to meet up and try again. He lives in a different state than me I moved after the divorce. My question is is I’m going...

Murmug

Xper 5 Age: 41

Does he have a reason to be so upset?

So I left my ex for another guy. The new guy knew that me and my ex had a long history and were very close but I just wasn't into it anymore. When I left my ex he begged and played the guilt trip card for a solid 2...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Problems with my ex?

This has been going on since last May. I broke up with my boyfriend. We had been together for a long time. About eight years all together. I realised that I didn't feel the same way anymore and ended things. He was very...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

How can I overcome my "Daddy Issues"?

Hello all, Okay so I'll get straight to it.. My father left me and my family when I was 5. He had an affair with another woman he met online and long story short, they got married and he was barely in my life growing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

I think my best friend is psychotically obsessive and I want to get her help? Thoughts?

- she has accused guys of sexual assault / r*pe just bc she felt pressured - she has taken pills or intentionally hurt herself to see a med student she briefly dated again at his work placement by texting his friends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have no idea what to do... is it me? Am I being too selfish?

I have been with this guy for 3 years now, and things began great, however the last year he has become so clingy and obsessed with the relationship, it's made me second guess things. The guy i'm dating is really sweet,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When your fiance is still angry at his baby mamma and takes it out on everyone else?

So i finally told my fiance he is a angry man and he seems angry with me , he goes and says I'm sorry you feel that way. He says if that's how I come across its because of the child support and still upset about how I...

Jojobear

Xper 7 Age: 31

Did I play this wrong? Is it time to cut her loose?

curiousmind88

Xper 2 Age: 30

Back in mid October, I decided to go out of my comfort zone and I added and messaged this really cute girl on Facebook I went to high school with, but never talked to. Anyway, we

Back in mid October, I decided to go out of my comfort zone and I added and messaged this really cute girl on Facebook I went to high school with, but never talked to. Anyway, we actually got talking and we started getting along pretty good.
She did live 2 hours away, because of school, so we didn't get together, but we talked more and more and she said she was interested in a relationship. I offered to come up to see her on my nights off, but she had night classes those nights, so I never could.
Anyway, she and I started making plans for her winter break. She had expressed interest in us starting to have sex and meeting parents while she was down here. I changed my schedule to make maximize my I'm with her. Going into the first date we were very excited and I really liked her, I got her a rose and everything, even went to find her favorite hot chocolate for our date.
But she asked to go home because of a migraine and said she wasn't fully over her ex and needed time. She said she thought she'd be fine until our plans became real.
For a few weeks we barely talked, and she'd ask me how I got over my last girlfriend. But lately, I felt I was trying to convince her she should be over her ex and stop ignoring the person who's trying to be in her life.
The other day I sent her a message, saying that I felt I was trying to convince her rather than help the situation. I told her hopefully when things change she'll reach out to me, and I'll be her for her. She said she didn't feel I was doing that, and she appreciates that.
It's been a few days since, and she hasn't said anything to me. I also found her Instagram, and she portrayed herself as a conservative quiet person, but she has a lot of revealing pictures on Instagram, which I guess is the norm now, but a lot of pictures for attention, in my opinion. She also still has a photo of her and the ex on there. I got more upset when I saw the pictures of her doing our plans, but whether she was with family or someone else I don't know.

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