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I've known this guy for about 5 years, we recently got together again at a party in May and hooked up that night (thank you tequila). The next day we decided we would get together again soon.. honestly I didn't think I would see him for another couple years. BUT, he called that day, we hungout and had a great time, we continued hanging out and have been doing so- we hangout every day if not 6 times a week. He kisses me in public, holds my hand, takes me out on dates, buy me gifts, calls me cute names, calls and texts to check in-everything a boyfriend would do. he really is an amazing person and we get along really well, we share our life goals and aspirations, I've met his entire family and friend group (his friends and i get along so well, sometimes we all hangout when he isn't even there). Except when I finally gained the nerve to ask what exactly we were doing and what he expected to get out of this, he said we were "dating", said that he is not hooking up with anyone else, is not going out and flirting with other people, is not talking to other people and that he would be pretty bummed if I was hooking up with anyone else or dating other people. But he never introduces me as his girlfriend and honestly as sweet as he is and as amazing as he treats me-i knew I wasn't his girlfriend. well 5 months later and we recently revisted the topic--he said he just isn't in a place in his life to get into anything serious.. he has aspirations and goals and if he gets an opportunity he is going to take it no matter where it is. I understood and supported it 100%... and then he said he doesn't want anything to change between us because he really cares about me and wants me in his life, loves spending time with me... etc. Do I stop hanging out with him just because he doesn't want to commit? Is it that serious that he doesn't want to?

My boyfriend turns 18 next Thursday, he is going out for a meal with his family and I am invited, but I took the weekend off work to spend together and he tells me he is spending all weekend in a town about an hour away with his dad - then he says 'I can see you late Sunday' but I'm at university open day because I am applying for uni and then he is going to pub with his friends on Monday and a game night with them on Tuesday. I am mad, how is this fair on me I spent lots of money on his presents and we have been together 18 months I just feel like he doesn't give a shit about me.