Search Results: guys who are players

All I ever hear from girls is that they get with guys, they have sex, and the guy ditches them in whatever way they do it.

And girls make it seem like ALL guys do this. Or most guys do this.

And here I am, believing that the majority of guys are feeling lucky and happy to find someone to be with, to have sex with, to date and cuddle and all that fun shit. That’s what I want. That’s what most guys I know want.

And yet if I were to go by what women say, both online AND in real life, I would be forced to believe that the overwhelming majority of guys are prowling around, looking for girls to fuck and dump. That’s it. We are all just a bunch of fuck and dumpers.

I personally feel like that is complete utter bullshit. I personally believe that the overwhelming majority of guys are looking for a long term relationship. That most guys are not out there, tricking girls and lying to get them into bed so that they can then ghost them the next day.

So put in your votes. My guess, is most guys will vote “never did that before.” If you vote that, tell me how successful you are with women.

If you are the guy who can wham bam thank you ma’am and ghost girls, tell me if you’re a player or not. If not, why did you ditch the girl after sex?

My guess, is the REAL problem with “men” is that women go for a specific type of guy, and then when those guys repeatedly ghost these girls, they go and complain to the world how horrible men are. But men are just fine. The problem is women’s taste in men.

But maybe I’m wrong. Maybe most of us really are wham bam thank you ma’aming girls left and right.

My best friend and me have both sorta been the player kind with cute chicks. Neither of us had gotten slapped b4, and I had lmao at guys who I know have gotten slapped. We both bragged it could never happen to us. I made sure girls wouldn't try it on me, cuz I had told a lot of em how I take karate and I'm GOOD at it. Well Fri my best friend had this cute blonde chick who's a junior that he'd been playing, come up to him. She smiles flirty at him, tilts her head... and then whooop!- out hung her right hand slap! I was like 10 feet away watching, and I was like😲😲😲😲and how FAST her slap was, how her hand hung out like that! He totally froze looking at her face😮😮😮and couldn't even move, ugh! Her slap hit him easily and his face turned to the side. She looked over at me and was all🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄.. Im afraid she saw me go😲😲😲... damnit! uggGGGH! After it, he was in the bathroom looking in the mirror, and her fingerprints were on his cheek, and he was touching that spot and was "aggh oww!" Now I'm seriously worried, I'm NOT kidding! because the truth is, I DON'T know any karate, ok? Not 1 dang move!!😭😭😭it was all made up so girls wouldn't try to slap me, just in case! I DON'T wanna end up like him! That cute blonde chick who easily slapped him was 1 of em I bragged to, awgh! What do I do? Now I'm sorry😭😭

My best friend and me have always been the same kinda way when it comes to girls. I guess players, smh. I've seen before when some guys got slapped by cute girls for being like that. I had always lmao when I saw it happen, because it had never happened to me or my best friend. What I did to make sure it wouldn't happen to me was I went around school to a lot of girls and bragged about me taking karate, so the girls would think I'd block their slap if they tried. Well yesterday, this 1 CUTE blonde chick who's a junior that was 1 I bragged to.. she went up to my best friend and tilts her head, gives him a flirty face. He goes😮😮and then whoop!-out hung her right hand slap to the outside! I was like😲😲😲bcuz of how FAST her hand was and how she had it hung out! My friend totally froze, he couldn't move, and he got slapped HARD! He was all OWWWW!😭😭😭I guess I was still standing there😲😲😲cuz she looked over at me and was 🙄🙄😏😏😏I was like.. uhhh?😯😯😯😯😯worried! In the bathroom, he was standing there looking in the mirror and was all "unh, DAMN HER!"😣😣😣and touching his cheek where her whole hand and fingerprints were on his cheek, red cheek! Now I got a MAJOR problem! She was 1 of the girls I had bragged to... but I DON'T really know any karate, UGH! NOT 1 MOVE! I just said that so girls wouldn't try it on me! What should I do? The look on his face in the bathroom.. I DON'T want that to be me!😣😣