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So she tells me everyone thinks she's a cat fish because she doesn't have social media.

She sent me pictures of her face and her family. I even reversed phone number her and she is telling the truth. We go to the exact same school (apparently) we came from the same city and we now live in the current same city. She wasn't lying about that because her area code on her phone number which she gave me.

However whenever I mention hanging out or plan something she ignores and doesn't initiate hanging out. Whenever I say hey let's say hi to each other at school she ignores me or changes the topic. We have so much in common and we are literally in the same facilities. Why doesn't she want to see me? This isn't for dating or anything; just a friendship. :( She likes guys and has a lover and I like guys. It makes me feel unwanted and kinda sad. She did say she's a bit of a loner and an introvert. Should I ask her why? Or what she wants from me as a relationship? Like does she want a pen pal or like a good friend?

I've known my guy best friend since I was about 9 and he was 12. We separated for a little bit because I moved but now we're back in the same state and we decided to rekindle our friendship. He has a wife who he has been with for 4 years. Married for 1. I HARDLY see this man because he is married and I don't want to be hanging around him 24/7. We talk on the phone like twice a week. I NEVER text or call him first, he's always the one to initiate it. I've been nothing but nice to his wife so that she wouldn't be uncomfortable with me but apparently that isn't working because she still doesn't like me. I am so sick of him being in my ear about how his wife doesn't trust me around him or whatever but he says that im his best friend and im important to him. I'm honestly just about to cut him off because I can get real disrespectful and I respect him enough to not follow up his bitter ass wife.