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This is about a guy I like, as usual.

I asked him when we first met about his past. He has had Gfs in the past that were all pretty small, the largest being about a D cup, I asked him why has hasen't persued a girl with a larger chest to his preference, he said personaliy counts first and for most regardless of preference. And he is the type of person that I believe what he said.

We have been friends for about two years, met in college.
He took me to work one day (at 4am mind you because my car was in the shop) and when he picked me up we gt on the discussion of what we like in bed.

Long story short he is a boob guy, like the bigger the better for him.

I personally see nothing wrong with it and was relieved he is a boob guy ( I am a 34HH myself) but it does make me think. I haven't told him i liked him and the reason is because I dont know if he will say he liked be back only for my breasts or for me.

I do honestly think he likes me for me simply because while I have caught him staring, if he lays in my lap while we play video games or we lay on the floor and taking a nap, while he will pull me close, he will not touch my chest or will pull down my shirt if it rises.

But yesterday was his birthday, and all of us did a little drink, nothing severe only 3 shots for me, and he stayed sober. When we went to sleep I was hot so I took off my top as did he, while the only extent of what we did was breast play after we woke up, afterwards he asked me how long does it take me to develop romantic feelings for someone. I told him only a few months but it takes long for me to know to persue it. He took a few moments to think and then told me he normally takes three years based on his passed. I didn't push it because I thought that may have been a signal to give him space, but he ended up cuddling next to me for the next couple of hours sleeping and then we went back to talking and having a good time for the rest of the day.

There has been no awkward tension and we are like how we were before, he is just a bit more touchy unless I ask him not to.

But I am lost to figuring out whe he asked me this question after what we did, that is what worries me that he is mixing his feelings with lust. But since he refused my advances to go any further, I got even more confused. He shows signs all the time that he likes me before this but is it for me or just my body? (Breast in particular)

I've been friends with this guy for around 7 years. We used to do everything together and I'd go over to his house as soon as he got off of work. We've never been single at the same time though. We've gone on trips, he's listened to me botch about breakups, took my side even though he was friends with the guy too, and he's tried to help me to reach goals. I've never thought of him as more than a friwnd. That is until after I moved away for 3 years and only got to see him a few times. Now I ended up in the same town he lives in. We started hanging out again and now I feel even closer to him and have started having some feelings. Although I've never let them show. We talk to each other about everything dreams, marriage, sex, kids, I mean everything. We give each other looks when we go out and someone is getting on our nerves or we want to leave. He calls me if he has to go somewhere and doesn't want to go alone. We are making plans to go on a spring break together. He buys me beers at the bar and pays for me to get into shows. The other night I was staying at his house. He told his roommate he was going to bed and then told me he had just got a new king sized bed if I wanted to sleep in there. He has 4 couches but I went to sleep in his room. I thought we would just sleep. But he asked if I wanted to cuddle and we did. He kept talking like nothing happened and I fell asleep. We woke up and he took me home like everything was the same. I'm just confused on why he would want to cuddle... does that mean he likes me or I'm over thinking