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Say what you want but I personally think if you're in a serious relationship, one of your responsibilities is staying attractive for your partner, especially if your married, and before you ignorantly skip the rest of this to write a hate comment I'll tell you why I think this, so hear me out. I think in a relationship, staying attractive to your partner is just as important as things like flirting, communicating and letting your partner know how you feel. I see way too many times where people would get married and think it's a reason to let themselves go, they think "Now that I'm married, I don't have to care about my looks because who do I have to impress?", well what about your Wife/Husband? Then they wonder why doesn't my Husband have sex with me anymore? Or why does my Wife watch porn instead of having sex with me? And in the worst cases they find out that their spouse has been having affairs, which I'm totally against, the #1 responsibility in a serious relationship is being loyal. Also, don't get me wrong either, this needs to work both ways, if your a slop yourself sitting on the couch watching Game of Thrones chowing down a bag of chips and you tell your partner to lose weight for you, they're eating salad while your pigging down McDonald's in front of them and you make them go to the gym alone of make them blow the dust off the old treadmill in the guest room, then you're even worst, and you need to be with your partner on this journey even if you're not fat yourself. I heard a man say "If a woman can be married for 10 years and still fit in her wedding dress, then her husband is one lucky son of a bitch", but granted this was some random guy I overheard and I couldn't find the quote on the internet so you can take that with a grain of salt, I don't know any quotes with the genders reversed but they'res probably one out there. One more thing, this does apply to both men and women.