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♡Hey guys! So here's the story: This cute guy stares at me sometimes when I have my guitar. Once he was biking with his brother and slowed down on his bike to look at me. His brother called him to hurry up and my friend right beside me thought hewas checking her out. Anyways, today was non uniform day. I walked past his locker while he was brushing his hair. He looked at me,
dropped his brush in his bag and then rotated almost ninety degrees. He looks me up and down and I blushed and walked out ♡♡
The thing is, all of these girls keep saying how he would look great with a bunch of girls on fb. He hasn't liked anything or commented. He is a year younger than me. We have only talked once on fb. What is happening?

My "bf" was suppose to take me on the most romantic weekend for my birthday and he literally vanished. He didn't respond to my text messages or calls. I actually thought he died or something terrible happened to him. I reached out to his friend asking where the hell my "bf" went. His friend tells me that he's not speaking to me because last time he dropped me off at my house, he stopped at a local store for something and he swears he heard two guys talking about sexual acts they did with ME. He says one of the guys were bragging about how far they got with me. But he's not even sure what he heard or who they were talking about.

Let me tell you why this makes me mad. First off, EVERYBODY GETS TALKED ABOUT AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIFE WHETHER THEY REALIZE IT OR NOT. Nobody is safe! Whether or not the rumor is true, I can't control what comes out of people's mouths!

2. IF my name was said, there is more than one person in this town with my name! I'm not the only person in the world with my name.

Third, he's gunna believe some guys he doesn't even know over trust? my "bf" lives in the next state, he doesn't know anybody in my town. So he's gunna believe someone he's never seen before in his whole life?

4th! GUYS LIE! Especially young guys! It's locker room talk! I am not a snobby person, I'm not full of myself, I don't think I'm better than anybody I swear! but hear me out.. I'm a 19 year old college freshman and a cheerleader and a girl. I'm not saying I'm more desirable than anybody else but... I get hit on weekly! ALL WOMEN DO! Do you know how many guys I've had to reject since I've been with my bf? I'm pretty sure guys hate rejection and would definitely tell their friends he did stuff with me regardless of me giving them the time of day.

5th He's thinking about breaking up with me over a rumor? WHO'S SIDE IS HE ON? HE SHOULD HAVE MY BACK! Think about it, IF ANYBODY SHOULD UPSET THAT PEOPLE ARE TALKING ABOUT THEM... ITS ME!

I've been friends with this guy for 3 years. In our first year of being friends, we got really close. People assumed we were dating by our behavior (walking to classes together, sharing earbuds to listen to a song, joking around, him jokingly fanning me with a paper plate). But whenever I lightly brought it up, he would deflect or deny. He also didn't text me first very often, although we did have some long convos. I was kind of young at the time, & I realize now that I put in more effort than he did.

We were friends the next year but not as close, & the year after we had no classes.

This year, we have 2 classes (which is 2 less than we had that first year), but we're closer than ever. We weren't as close at the beginning of the year, but it got better, & then 1-2 weeks ago, something changed with him. Now we text more & it's a fair share of who texts first & how involved we are. In class, he has chosen to stay sitting next to me even when his close guy friend moved somewhere else. He talks to me first in class a lot more, uses my name in conversation, sometimes makes excuses to stay at his locker longer when I'm there, & makes me a part of his convos rather than me having to take the initiative (he can be shy, so I was used to having to take the first steps). He has a snapchat & only has three (all male) friends on it, & yesterday I told him to add me. He did, then I made a joke & he pretended to be hurt & then unfriended me. But then a few hours later he randomly added me back of his own will. He's snapped me first more times than I've snapped him first, & when I snapchat in class, he moves to be in the pics.

What do you think is going on? He's quiet with other people, but he's not like that at all with me and his close friends. Is there anything I should do to find out his feelings?