Oh lord, you have got to get out of the habbit of over-anylyzing and anylyzing men. I stoped doing that a long time ago. I decided that I am a mature grown woman and I know how to speak to people like an adult. I refuse to play mind games with people. If someone can not speak to me like an adult then i go about my day just fine.
I like having this attitude too because it makes life less complicated. i met the guy who was right for me by having this attitude. He too does not agree with mind games and is a firm beliver that actual real communication and expressing yourself is the only way someone is gonna know what is on your mind because neither of us has psychic powers.
i also learned that you should never try to change someone. ever! becasue it will always backfire. If you want a guy who knows how to commicate with you like an adult Then dont go after the guy who is not that and try to make him into that. Or if you want a guy that wants love and commitment Then dont go after the guy that wants to have sex with every girl and try to make him love you. People just dont work like that.
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It takes awhile to bring a shy guy out of his shell. It's a really good sign that he made eye contact and contributed to the conversation, even if he went back to being shy. Just keep working on getting him comfortable with you. Eventually he'll fully trust you and talk to you the same as anyone else would. Then ask again.
Good luck!
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