Am I intimidating to guys?

[Anonymous]

I never dated before and I’m not sure if guys in the past may have liked me but never told me. And I have a guy friend at my job who makes it kinda obvious that he likes me, but whenever his friends bring it up around me he tries to deny it. But when we’re alone he talks about us being together but we haven’t made plans yet. But he think my brother will get mad at him for talking to me (Which he won’t)

I catch him staring at me a lot and when I ask him about it he’ll just chuckle says “nothing” and walk away.

It happens so often now that I actually feel awkward when he keeps looking at me when I’m trying to work. I don’t wanna report him but I have told him to stop and he haven’t.

In the break room I see him and his friends all huddled up and they would look at me then at him. But like whenever I ask about it he doesn’t wanna tell me and his friends won’t either.

Is it possible he’s shy or afraid I might reject him or scared of my brother? I even told him if he needed to talk to me about something personal he could always come to me but he doesn’t do that either.

[Curmudgeon]

"Is it possible he’s shy or afraid I might reject him or scared of my brother?"

Yes, that IS possible, but even MORE likely is that it is a workplace situation. And that's damn dangerous for any man, especially if it is a serious career for him.

And it is also possible that if your brother is his friend, or even just his coworker, that makes it also very very awkward.

So YOU may or may not be intimidating to guys, but the situation he is in certainly IS intimidating.

[Asker]

There’s other couples at my job. My workplace isn’t strict about relationships

[Shy_Steve]

Sounds like you are but it's not your fault really so just try and get him alone and talk to him if you like him.

[Asker]

I have social anxiety so that might be a factor and probably makes people think I’m mean or something since I don’t talk much 😞

[Shy_Steve]

I have the same problem, But I understand that if I do approach a Girl I have already increased my chances.
Girls are already less likely to get Rejected than Guys.

[dustybiker]

Do you like him?
My bet is that he likes you. He’s holding back approaching you for whatever reason.
Men and woman both have blocks about approaching each other anymore. It’s silly.
You were good to leave an opening for him to talk if he wants.

[Asker]

I like him but I don't know how to tell him

[dustybiker]

You could always be brave and ask him out? Find out or ask if he’s single first.

[Wise4myage]

That's possible, would love to see a pic of you.