Are guys intimidated by me?

[pinkbrain]

I will be 100% honest so I can get the best answers possible, I’m in no way a narcissist or anything of the sort, I am pretty confident in myself and my looks which is new to me because I grew up ugly and just in the recent years made lots of changed to become my “best self” anyway, I’m 171 cm tall which in my country is tall for a woman and I dress nicely and take good care of my appearance. I’m in my first year of college and what I noticed is that people, mostly guys, might be intimidated by me? I can’t tell if they just don’t want to be near me or are really intimidated. For example when I go to stand in line at the cafeteria people will part to make way for me and guys, even when they’re there first will step aside to let me go first and even when this happens I can feel peoples eyes on me but I mostly ignore it. It doesn’t bother me but I do notice it. Same goes for when I’m walking down a hallway I can pretty much walk straight without swerving here and there to make way for anyone and when I make eye contact with anyone, if I don’t look away first mostly because I’m distracted, they will tend to look away from me. Like I said, since I grew up feeling ugly, I am not familiar with this and can’t tell if people are intimidated by me or just downright repulsed lol I’ve also noticed on my way to class sometimes when I walk past some guys they will stare at me and if they’re walking somewhere they will literally stop just to look at me. I swear I’m not doing this to fish for compliments or anything I just genuinely don’t know if people do this because they find me so weird they have to stop and look and/or avoid me (because that’s what I grew accustomed to in the past) or if it’s for another reason.

[Anonymous]

Let me say this. Women please, understand men aren’t intimidated by you as far as your confidence, your education or how much money you make. The only time a man is intimidated by a woman is when she’s so gorgeous he doesn’t feel like he has a chance. That’s the only time. Women who are “confident,” “independent,” etc, usually act like men. That’s not what men want that’s why we avoid those types of women. Women tell theirselves things like this to cope w the real reason why men don’t approach them. A lot of men say the same thing when this question comes up, which it has numerous time. But women still insist we’re insecure when it comes to these types of women. No we’re not. Please stop listening to women who are telling you what your truth is. The men are telling you what their truth is but women still want to believe other women. So basically there’s no point in asking if you’re just accepting answers from women who align w your answer. Then women wonder why men don’t talk, why we don’t express our feelings, our thoughts. Cause they get dismissed. Were told something is wrong w us because our answer isn’t the same as yours.

[abc3643]

What country are you in?
I do not believe you are in the US despite your profile saying so.
"College" would be a word in the US, but Americans do not measure height in centimeters, so that tells me you are not American.

I believe that I __may__ have an answer to your question, but I need to know two things:
1. Ideally, what you really look like - at least in the face.
2. Where you are because that tells me what culture you are in. That will greatly affect the answer to your question no matter who is answering.

[Viola_456]

I know exactly what you feel like... Im 5'11 blonde with a fit body. Everything you described is happening to me daily. And i swear when i wear heels EVERYONE is staring at me. Soo to your question, yes they are ussualy intimidated, many guys told me that... Sometimes they are just interested if they are confident enough but most IS intimidated at least towards me.

[MushyKiwi]

Heck yeah their intimidated by you, usually confident woman don't get approached because of the opposite gender believing that they are too good for them or they're just scared, so keep doing you boo. :)

[NewgodOmega]

OK liaten you are a narc that's sure I didn't even read all that bullshit the first 3 lines told me everything you are a narc and you are your problem

[pinkbrain]

1- Your grammar is so bad I can’t even take this seriously
2- I don’t think you know what the meaning of the word narc is ☠️

[NewgodOmega]

Then don't ask for honest opinions if you can't handle the truth. The truth is hard to handle, I could have said you are mentally fucked up coz you asked a stupid question like that but I don't think you are completely insane I think the narc persona in you wants that validation and sympathy, you are miserable i know, I know you know too that you are miserable

[pinkbrain]

That’s a whole lot of bullshit to assume from someone who has given you not even 0.01% of info about themselves that you didn’t even read fully. Just because you’re miserable and insufferable does not mean everyone else is too or you can just shit on other people because you hate yourself.

[NewgodOmega]

You assumption match basic persona of a narc, I didn't ever hinted about self hate but since you are a narc you auto assumed that self hate you might not like it but you are a narc you tick all the red boxes for being a narc

[pinkbrain]

You are such a hypocrite it’s literally insane. Get therapy for real.

[Lliam]

Don't sweat it, pinkbrain. Omegaboy is 13. Narc (short for narcissist) is the new word for "stuck up" among middle schoolers. "She's such a narc" is how these children put down girls.
This kid can't even write an intelligible sentence and has no clue was narcissism means.

[NewgodOmega]

@Lliam I can enough laugh at people like you and that other pink worm coz that would mean that I felt funny but honestly I felt miserable about you, in fact feeling miserable about you is also a epic waste and I am 38 by the way not American and kinda doing okish without that American blue white and sad world

[NewgodOmega]

You need therapy and I am sure even therapy won't solve your problem coz you belive there is nothing wrong with you, when there is no problem it can't be fixed similarly if a person dont understand they are damaged goods like you then they can't be fixed

[Lliam]

@newgodomega. So your profile says you are 13 and from the U. S. But you are really 38, not from the U. S. and can't form a cogent sentence. Dishonest and semi-literate. Why would anyone take you seriously?

[NewgodOmega]

@Lliam the same reason life dont give a shit what you want, you are not important enough the universe don't care what you want learn to live with it

[Lliam]

@newgodomega. It's sad that that's what you think about yourself.

[NewgodOmega]

@Lliam I am realist I know I die tonight no one gives a shit, I am OK with that. Lives dont matter men lives matter less, listen as soon as robots will be able to do all the work men do efficienty all men will be killed off by some men with power. Coz we won't be needed then, men have always been the expendable gender, dont pretend anything has changed, I survived a earthquake A flood 2 tornados 2 riots a pandemic I know what men lives are worth they are worth less than shit

[FunkyMonkee]

5' 7"'s not that tall. My ex-fiance was only 5' 3" and I'm 6' 9". You're only 4" taller than her.

[pinkbrain]

I literally said it’s tall for a woman IN MY COUNTRY. This is not even about my height and gave me no useful answer to my actual question. I see why she’s an ex now.

[FunkyMonkee]

Your country is my country! With such a shit attitude, it's no wonder nobody wants to date you!!

[pinkbrain]

No? It’s not? Are you mentally challenged?

[FunkyMonkee]

No but, OBVIOUSLY YOU are!!

[Billlewis]

They probably are, and I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing;)

[JHAYES317]

I mean your height wouldn’t intimidate me…but maybe you have resting bitch face or something which isn’t necessarily intimidating but it doesn’t make guys want to approach you…

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[pinkbrain]

Can u explain at least