Search Results: meeting new guys

I just absolutely give up looking for a partner. I’ve tried almost every dating app. And am always single. Everyone I’ve known has been able to easily find a partner whether it be through an app or meeting people in person.

I have had “friends” previously that I’d go out with and guys didn’t give me the time of day. I’ve lost a significant amount of weight and regardless of how I look, people don’t notice me. I only get attention from guys that I wouldn’t date and that’s rarely. So that does not count.

Everyone i I know is able to find love without trying and I don’t understand why or how I’m always alone. It’s extremely unfair and I don’t know what else to do. I’m in my mid twenties and even though I’m shy, dating should not be this hard for a young woman. While I do have low self esteem, people have told me throughout my life that I’m attractive and this doesn’t only include family/ “close friends”.

Paid nor free apps work for me. I don’t have friends in real life so I rely on these apps. And people I’ve met are able to find someone without much effort. While here I am alone. I am that woman that is always alone. No friends or partner in my life. I’ve considered losing more weight and wonder if that’ll change the lack of attention I’ve received. What bothers me is someone I used to see for a few months was able to move on to a new girlfriend shortly after I stopped talking to him. I’m not into him anymore, it just bugs me how he is able to move on and find someone likes him while I’m always single. And people told me that I’m more attractive than him/ could do better.

Am i I the unluckiest person ever or is this the way dating usually is for most women? Because I don’t think it is.

I began speaking to him on a dating app earlier last week. I didn’t answer consistently at first cuz he wasn’t asking questions and was basic. I was blunt with him about it going no where and the conversation picked up. We are scheduled to have lunch this weekend and meet up.

He told me at 1st that he was looking to meet new people and see where it went. I said I wanted the same but I don’t like hookups. And he said he’d prefer to not hook up either but isn’t opposed to it if it ever came up.

He has bad relationship history (cheating ex’s) and I mentioned that I have trust issues too (as a joke). And he said he hates dating and isn’t in the state of mind to date. And I asked him what he defined as dating. He said having a girlfriend.

So I asked again if all he wanted was a hook up and he said no. He is open to meeting someone to date/be in a relationship with. He is taking it as it comes apparently.


We have spoken via Snapchat everyday and he has never said anything inappropriate or implying he wants sex so far. The only thing that stands out is: he has 2 shirtless pics on his dating app AND goes to bed super early on the weekdays. Like 9:00 AM. For “work”. I’d say it’s because he probably has a girlfriend lol