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Talked to this guy for 2 months. We didn't date yet, but we texted, facetimed over the course of the months and hung out twice. He told me he liked me then told me he will be busy for next two days. Didn't hear from him in 4 days and I texted him. He replied fast saying he's working and asked how i was. Then he stopped texting for another day. I confronted him saying he's stringing me along and called him a kid. He said I was assuming and irrational. I apologized and told him I still felt he didn't want to get to know me. He blew up on me and told me he didn't want to deal with someone he hardly knew and ignored me for 2 weeks. He came back again saying I hope I understand why he gave space. I apologized and asked him I dont want my time to be wasted. If he wants to be friends or get to know me. He didn't reply for a long time. I already knew the answer and told him its okay just delete my number and not contact me. He replied fast again and said Im unhealthy. I told him im just being a girl and feel insecure and that I like him and find him attractive, dont want to be used. He attacked me again. We argued with LONG messages. Told him lets talk over phone, he said okay. Next day he says he's sick and can't make it to a show (no idea about the show) and can schedule to facetime me in a couple of days. I felt like he was mocking me so I told him he can go to hell. We aruged with LONG messages again and that was it. I felt horrible for telling him to go to hell and jail (he sells weed). Two weeks after I sent him an email apologizing. That I have anger issues but I'm working on myself and he didn't deserve that. It's been months and I still feel horrible. I still think he was playing me regardless of him saying he was "truly" busy. I just had a strong gut feeling also that we wanted different things. How can I cope with this? He will never forgive me. That kills me on the inside. Like he said, we barley knew each other, but I shared deep personal things with him.

Should people start using social media as basically a platform to out shitty people/tarnish their reputation who have been known for using people in the past.

For example a guy who are a player, smooth talker and tries to convince a girl that he wants a relationship with her only to trick her into sex and then discard her once he's done with her.

Should girls who have been used by him basically out his name on social media so that rest of the women in the area would know to stay away from him.

Similar to women who may in fact be stringing men along for attention and constantly manipulating. them or perhaps even women who have no interest in guys at all but use them for free meals/favors.

Should guys also use social media to get the word around that this girl is a user and basically prevent her from using other men in the future?

Basically show that using people today has consequences and ruins your reputation.

Prior to meeting this guy we text and face timed. A month later I drove to him. We hung out for two days. No sex. He cooked and paid for food. After I left he told me he liked me and wanted to get to know me. So after that he said he was going to be busy next two days. I said cool talk to me when you're not busy. 3 days pass. I was like he must be really busy but I decided to text him. He texted quickly and said he's working and how I'm doing. I replied. He didn't text back for another day. So I text him he didn't have to leave me hanging. He texted me saying I'm freaking out and assuming. I apologized for assuming and told him I felt he was blowing me off. He got really defensive and angry and we argued. He told me he didn't want to deal with an emotional person he hardly knows. He didn't talk for 2 weeks but was online the dating website and redid his profile. So I moved on. He texted me after 2 weeks saying I hope I understand why he gave space and that he enjoyed being with me. I apologized again and asked him what does he want? I don't want to waste my time. Want a friend or something more. He didn't reply again for a long time. I texted him it's okay he doesn't have to answer and please just delete my number. I already knew the answer. He texted quickly again and attacked me saying I'm not healthy. I told him I stood by what I felt. He was stringing me along. We argued again. I told him well instead of texting and fueling the argument lets talk over phone. He said he would like that but not when I'm acting like this. I said okay great just let me know tomorrow when he's available. Next day he text he's sick in bed and he can't talk and won't be able to make it to firework show? That he can schedule me to FaceTime in a few days if that's okay. Fireworks? He never told me about a show? So I called him twice, he didn't pick up. I told him screw this, argued and told him I'm blocking him. He attacked me with the same stuff again and said goodbye.

There are a group of people (mostly women) who get off on the idea of people showering them with attention. So let's look at case of women since most of them seem to be within that group:

1. A lot of them will give a guy their number, and string him along with false hope that she's interested in him. Many of them will flake on dates but make up an excuse as to why so the guy stays hooked until he get frustrated and give up.

2. Many of them are very narcissistic and get joys out of rejecting good looking guys just so they can brag about it. In fact Mia Khalifa is a good example of such a woman. She rejects Drake advances and then decides to post his text conversation with her on twitter so people can see.

3. Many women will give all the signals and make a guy take the risk of approaching her only to humiliate him once he plays his hand of interest that she is not interested in him like that.

4. Some girls even go so far as to humiliate men who try to act flirty with them over text and either show it to their friends for a good laugh or post it on the internet so people can make fun of them.

With all that being said it's a wonder why young men are still approaching women today when they have to go through such mind field of possibly being screwed over. And this also hurt women too because the girls who genuinely want a date/relationship will have a harder time guys approaching and not thinking she is stringing him along also. No wonder men these days have a short patient to take things slow and want sex fast because they think we are playing them if we don't drop our panties immediately.