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To make a long story short, I’m in love with my local renaissance faire. I go quite frequently every year. Well, there’s this guy there that is a performer in one of the music acts that play each year. I’ve been crushing on him since last year, but I have never really spoken to him at all. I’m extremely shy, and get very nervous and awkward around guys that I’m into.

I’ve seen him four times this season so far, always making sure to watch them perform. I love the music as well, not just watching for him, just to make that clear. Each time I’ve seen him, he’s complimented something. The first time was the outfit, the second was the new flower crown I bought, the third was a different outfit (which he gently placed a hand on my back when he said it), and the forth was on my hair and how I had it done.

Now, because I don’t know him well at all, it’s very hard for me to tell if he’s being friendly and kind, or if he’s actually interested. After my faire is over, though, he travels to another. So he doesn’t live by me. I’m not sure what to do, or if it’s too ‘childish’ to go to someone that knows him and perhaps ask what they think.

My friend and I think it would be a cute idea to slip a note into the basket he carries for tips after the show is over. Tie it with a ribbon in a tip, and maybe put a piece of the ribbon in my hair. What do you think? I’ve gotten some good feedback so far on the poll, but not a lot of comments. I’m just not good at reading into things.

Any advice? :)

To make a long story short, I’m in love with my local renaissance faire. I go quite frequently every year. Well, there’s this guy there that is a performer in one of the music acts that play each year. I’ve been crushing on him since last year, but I have never really spoken to him at all. I’m extremely shy, and get very nervous and awkward around guys that I’m into.

I’ve seen him four times this season so far, always making sure to watch them perform. I love the music as well, not just watching for him, just to make that clear. Each time I’ve seen him, he’s complimented something. The first time was the outfit, the second was the new flower crown I bought, the third was a different outfit (which he gently placed a hand on my back when he said it), and the forth was on my hair and how I had it done.

Now, because I don’t know him well at all, it’s very hard for me to tell if he’s being friendly and kind, or if he’s actually interested. After my faire is over, though, he travels to another. So he doesn’t live by me. I’m not sure what to do, or if it’s too ‘childish’ to go to someone that knows him and perhaps ask what they think.

My friend and I think it would be a cute idea to slip a note into the basket he carries for tips after the show is over. Tie it with a ribbon in a tip, and maybe put a piece of the ribbon in my hair. What do you think? I’ve gotten some good feedback so far on the poll, but not a lot of comments. I’m just not good at reading into things.

Any advice?

To make a long story short, I’m in love with my local renaissance faire. I go quite frequently every year. Well, there’s this guy there that is a performer in one of the music acts that play each year. I’ve been crushing on him since last year, but I have never really spoken to him at all. I’m extremely shy, and get very nervous and awkward around guys that I’m into.

I’ve seen him four times this season so far, always making sure to watch them perform. I love the music as well, not just watching for him, just to make that clear. Each time I’ve seen him, he’s complimented something. The first time was the outfit, the second was the new flower crown I bought, the third was a different outfit (which he gently placed a hand on my back when he said it), and the forth was on my hair and how I had it done.

Now, because I don’t know him well at all, it’s very hard for me to tell if he’s being friendly and kind, or if he’s actually interested. After my faire is over, though, he travels to another. So he doesn’t live by me. I’m not sure what to do, or if it’s too ‘childish’ to go to someone that knows him and perhaps ask what they think.

My friend and I think it would be a cute idea to slip a note into the basket he carries for tips after the show is over. Tie it with a ribbon in a tip, and maybe put a piece of the ribbon in my hair. What do you think? I’ve gotten some good feedback so far on the poll, but not a lot of comments.

Any advice?

To make a long story short, I’m in love with my local renaissance faire. I go quite frequently every year. Well, there’s this guy there that is a performer in one of the music acts that play each year. I’ve been crushing on him since last year, but I have never really spoken to him at all. I’m extremely shy, and get very nervous and awkward around guys that I’m into.

I’ve seen him four times this season so far, always making sure to watch them perform. I love the music as well, not just watching for him, just to make that clear. Each time I’ve seen him, he’s complimented something. The first time was the outfit, the second was the new flower crown I bought, the third was a different outfit (which he gently placed a hand on my back when he said it), and the forth was on my hair and how I had it done.

Now, because I don’t know him well at all, it’s very hard for me to tell if he’s being friendly and kind, or if he’s actually interested. After my faire is over, though, he travels to another. So he doesn’t live by me. I’m not sure what to do, or if it’s too ‘childish’ to go to someone that knows him and perhaps ask what they think.

My friend and I think it would be a cute idea to slip a note into the basket he carries for tips after the show is over. What do you think?

Any advice?

Okay so I am a college freshman and my TA is a sophomore for my freshman experience class so he’s supposed to help us out when we need it. I've had a suspicion that he likes me lately just because whenever he is talking to ‘the class’ he keeps eye contact with me and doesn’t look away and I thought it was a little weird. one day we were walking out of class and we ended up walking together and he asks me if Im going to get food and I told him I was and apparently so was he. I tried to branch off a few times but whenever I did he would ask “aren’t you getting food?” then I said yeah then went his way. So we get there and I told him I went one place and he wanted to go to another so when he was walking away I said “bye nice talking to you” but he says back “Ill meet back up with you” so I’m waiting for my food and he calls me over to a table and I go sit. We talk about random things and freshman stuff and asks me if Im going to the football game, I told him I didn’t know and said I didn’t have anyone to go with and he said “you’re welcome to come with me and my friends” then we keep talking and he tells me “whatever you need I’m here. Just text me and I got you” then he holds out his pinky and literally pinky promises he’ll help me out if I need it. Also he said his class started at 2:30 and he didn’t leave until 2:28.

That was a few days ago, today I texted him asking if he had any tips for studying for an exam (because thats his job) and he turned that into “I’ll help you study!” I kinda tried to shut it down like “oh you don’t have to Im sure you have other things to do” but he said he didn’t care. So he said he had work to do today but tomorrow he could, but then later he invited me to his apartment off campus at like 7:30pm. I told him “I don’t have a car so Ill stay home” and he offered to come get me. He said he'd have me back by 10 but I still thought it was weird. I told him “thats okay you don’t have to” and he hasn’t responded. what do you think that is?