Search Results: what makes you lose interest in the girl

Shy girl went from friendly to avoidant?

A somewhat shy girl I've been interested in has gone from being very friendly when texting to a much more avoidant and distant behavior. I'm almost 100 % sure she liked me before but I didn't see her much because she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I start to like him again?

There's a guy I know for 4 years. I liked him in the first year but then he changed and now he is really loud, arrogant and kind of a player. After that year I lost all the interest I had for him, but he still acts the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is that when you don't give a girl attention, sometimes she craves for you attention?

This always baffled me, and it still does. I remember the times when I used to persue a girl, get rejected or ignored, but when I lose intetest in them or never had interest in them in the first place, they end up coming...

IJUSTMEH

Xper 4 Age: 29

Is he taking it slow or has he started losing interest?

I started seeing a guy a few weeks ago. The first date was just going for pizza but was amazing in that there was an instant connection. I've never felt that at ease with someone, it was like we'd known each other...

alex515

Xper 4 Age: 37

Should I make the first move?

Long story short: My crush has had a thing for me in the past and wanted to date me, but I showed him that I wasn’t interested after his multiple attempts so naturally he gave up (long time ago though). Now I like him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How can I make girlfriends?

I’ll be 21 soon. I was shy whole life, think it was hereditary but I hated my life. No one wanted to be my friend cuz I was boring & didn’t talk. Girls were mean & guys were nice. Senior year I had 1 close good guy friend...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Why doesn't any guy take an interest in me?

Honestly, I don't know what I'm doing wrong and no guy ever has approached me romantically. I'm not that bad looking (I'm not a godess either), I will talk to new guys, I don't have any problems with that, I usually make...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I can't get over something my boyfriend did. Is our relationship doomed?

I met my boyfriend with one of my new friends. Me and him hung out a few times and enjoyed each others company. While I was sick and getting a surgery, he ended up touching my friends cooch :) Now I know we weren't dating...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Whats the reason that makes women lose interest so fast and change gears?

Something i could never understand even after dozens of interactions with women, regardless of age it seems that a lot of women lose interest for no reason whatsoever it just happens, one moment they love you the second...

3rdSrike

Xper 6 Age: 32

Flirting

How do you like to let a friend know you're interested?

I'm a college student and I have friends who I am interested in possibly for a relationship. I'm torn because we are friends and I am terrible at being able to discern friendship from interest when looking for interest....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it better to date a mature or imature guy?

I have met a guy last year at a job I used to work at. We both liked each other a lot. He’s 25. He would give me rides home, texted daily, flirted, we went to date 2x. We fought many times but would make up. He said he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I have feelings for this guy?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he so afraid, is 20 years too big an age gap?

I started talking to this older guy online, he befriended me after I wrote about how low I felt, boardering suicide. It turned out we got on really well effortlessly. He has helped me immensely with my confidence, self...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Reconnected with a crush, only for her to turn awkward around me... Did I scare her off somehow? How can I proceed?

Last week, at a quasi-professional event, I reconnected with a girl that I had been hardcore crushing on for the past month or two. We got along fairly well; she was happy to see me, and she laughed at my jokes and all...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women Think They Should Approach Men? I Don't Believe That

For a lot of years I’ve always been against women making the first move on a guy, or at least I never really favored it. But now I don’t really care one way or another or make a big deal of it in my life anymore, though I...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Am I the only girl that feels this way ughhhh?

First of all, I’m a 16 years old girl (16 y 2 m since yesterday), 100% introversion, INTJ, Type-B blood (I fit Type-AB personality on the chart way more, I’m not a super social and friendly gir, mind you) Asperger’s...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Did I hurt his pride by doing this? Is money a factor when guys pick girls to date?

To make a long story short; I dated a guy who had a low income job. We have very different backgrounds. I have a very high income job, but I never cared about any of that. I liked him a lot. However, I acted a little...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, what could make you lose your interest in a girl?

thatcutie

Xper 4 Age: 25