Search Results: commitment phobia

Is liking emotionally unavailable men and rejecting available ones a sign of commitment phobia?

I am a graduate student with a very hectic and busy schedule. I am also very tied to my religious culture so I only want to date guys from that background. Whenever I do date by going to social events or online dating...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does this mean I am a commitment phobe?

If I don't get those anxious butterflies from a guy right away or think he's perfect, I tend to be dismissive. I sometimes look for excuses to back out or nope that the guy won't call etc. I want a relationship but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does anyone else feel 'proud' to be single?

Ok, it goes like this. I'm a 27 year old straight guy who was involved in relationships earlier, but have been single since 4 years. Now the thing is, I'm beginning to feel that I'm 'unique' because I've remained single...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Commitment Phobic Guys - Do they fall in love?

A year ago, I dated this guy for only about 2 months. I didn't know he has commitment phobia until recently I read an article and everything mentioned matches him 100%. He was a hopeless romantic at first, gave me a lot...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hard-to-Get 30-Year-Old Guy?!

I know I'm going to catch flack for this, but, after being burned and cheated on in all my relationships from being too easy to get and not setting myself up as a "prize" in the guy's eyes by being somewhat unavailable...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why do you think there are so many "damaged goods" people in the USA's dating pool today?

Let's be honest here: this site wouldn't be as growing in popularity as it is, if there weren't so many "damages People being incapable of communicating their feelings properly, cheating seeming like a common thing...

Prof_Don

Master Age: 40

How do you get over commitment phobia and do I have commitment phobia?

Ok, I have been in a long term relationship for 8 months but I didn't really love the guy. It was nice to be with someone who would actually call back, go to the cinema with me and take me out on dates. The rest of my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I respond to a happy birthday text from my ex?

My ex boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago. We have not been in contact at all. We had been seeing each other for a year and he pushed me away on two other occasions before this one. We shared a very good relationship...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is it hard for some guys to know what they want?

why is it some guys really like this one girl, and even though they are crazy about her, they are still confused on what to do about it? commitment phobia? what's could be reasons?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I help Commitment Phobia friend?

So for a while I had a FWB. I ended up telling him I was starting to like him, he told me if he was younger(there is an 8 year gap) without commitment issues, he would be all for it, and that our friendship was not going...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it that some men have commitment phobia?

I just found out from the guy I had a crush on to have commitment phobia. Almost every guy I knew has also a fear in committing to a relationship too. And it is not like there is something wrong about me. I didn't push...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

He cares so much about me but why don't I want to get together with him?!

I have a friend I've known for two years who's recently told me he loves me. He said he's been having these feelings for a year now. Let me establish that he is one of the closest friends I have and that we are...

boopdoop

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do you want a traditional life (house kids etc.)?

When I think about my future, I can't imagine having kids, getting a mortgage or anything like that. I could just about envisage marriage but not a big traditional wedding, I like the idea of marriage but wonder if people...

5storeyfire

Xper 5 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

Why won't he take his own money back ?

This man I was dating gave me money out of the blue. I told him I didn't want it not did I need it. I never spent 1 penny of it. I saved it all. He has commitment phobia so he basically pulled out until I broke it off...

01littleone

Xper 5 Age: 60

How to cure commitment phobia?

I've been a commitment phobie for years and I still haven't figured a way to get rid of it. It's caused me a lot of problems in life and is probably one of the reasons I've never had a relationship with a guy that lasted...

IHateMeganFox

Yoda Age: 31

What now, Mr Right or Mr Wrong?

So the short story is this.. I have been living with a guy for 3 years and he suffers depression and commitment phobia.. We only recently discovered this but he had already made plans to move away. It truly broke my...

Anonymous

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