Search Results: don't want to be just a booty call

he's 28 me 24... I added a guy I've never met, but know of on snapchat that I was attracted to and he ended up adding me back in November. We haven't talked in a while and our conversations have always been very short and he always flirts a bit. 2 nights ago he snapped me a picture of a black screen in private message. I responded

me "buttsnap" because I assume was an accident.
him ?
me told him he sent a blank pic
him P** pic
me didn't know you had a black p*
squash emoji
him yeah its big and black..
no its white and small
him how have you been? when are we going to hangout?
me told him that I was fine.. then said "whaaat you want to be my friend?
him possibly
me I know I'm pretty freaking awesome
him you are cute as a button
it's because of that smile and or that booty
definitely not because of your singing
me You can't tell me things like that if you want to be my friend
those are fighting words
him but you dont deny the booty
me I dont have a booty.. sooo sorry about that, but we can stuff my pants + laughing emoji
him you're Spanish. it's in your DNA
me how do you know I'm Spanish are you a wizard?
him bowing head emoji
me by the way how have you been?
him Good, enjoying LA so far
You?
me told him that I have been having a couple hard weeks but feeling better
him he sweetly said sorry and then said we should definitely hangout
me yeah we should before you leave again, what part of LA are you located for the summer
him he told me the city and gives me his cell number
me I'll text you now so you know its me : )

I text him it's me with my name
he texts me back the next morning with the up arms emoji

and thats where it ends. lol I rarely date and my guy friendships are never flirty. I've called him out on a couple of times on his word choices he's used in the pass and he's said he's not that type of guy. he's vey professional and normal on his fb page so this is very different side of him. Thank you to who ever is still reading this. :)

I want to be as specific as possible so you can get the full picture of my situation.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months exactly. We see eachother every day. We spend nearly every second of our free time together except when... It's time to go to bed. He tells me he loves me. I want to believe he does. But he has only stayed the night with me twice. Often, most of the time more than once a week, he will even book an extravagant, expensive hotel room... just hang out with me there, sex, hang out some more, drink etc , then leave. Sometimes he is so drunk he can barely walk and he would still rather go home! It is very important for a man to sleep with me, to hold me, make me feel safe, secure and comfortable... I don't understand how a man can be comfortable having sex with me, going down on me etc but not sleeping me. It's very hurtful, and I feel like it's something about me. Like, maybe he doesn't want to be attached to me. Like a psychological issue where he may see this as a larger commitment. Or maybe he is scared it will become a habit. I DON'T KNOW. I am an attractive, slender, 21 year old woman... I can't see why he wouldn't want to sleep with me. Every morning when I wake up I just roll my eyes into the back of my head like... what the hell am I doing? I have never thought that this would ever be any sort of issue.
I have confronted him many times. Told him that this isn't going to work if this carries on. I have told him that it is important to me. It's just like he doesn't care. I've never even been inside or outside of his apartment. But I know he doesn't have a girlfriend bc he's ALWAYS with me.

When I told him last night that I needed an answer right then and there why he won't sleep with me, he said, "The last girl that I slept with was my ex of 7 years"... Which ended about 5 years. (he is 28) I DO KNOW for a FACT that this is a LIE bc he told me about another realationship that he was in for one year and they lived together after 6 months. I confronted him on the lie... he stuck by his lie saying that I had gotten confused (HA I had not) and I didn't say another word bc I didn't want to argue. He doesn't pee the bed, doesn't pass gas while sleeping... so it can't be that. he's not a snorer... Does any one have any input on why this is? And dont say it might be a clingy booty call bc its not like that. I just need to know if I should just leave. What's the deal here guys, really?