I dont get it why does he keep texting me like this?

[creative_hairdresser]

so i have put a post up about this guy before n he confuses the hell out of me any way so he kept making up exscuses that he was so busy with work n that he has no time blabla n he sed he wants a relationship but its just not fair n we played that game for 6 months ny way finally i got over the game coz it was going no where so I've started dating someone else n stopped texting him any way the last 2 weekends he text me going hey what r u doing u should come ova n I've been wiv this other guy n i told him i couldn't coz i was on a date n then he was like oh so its to late for me i miss u i wanna see u and all that crap but then i sed what do u want tell me what u want n he's like i wanna see u! n im like yeah but y? n then he pulled the whole i do want a relationship but im just so busy its not fair crap again n i told him im not gunna be the girl he texts for a booty call im not that kind of girl n im seeing some one else now y does he keep texting me like that i dont get it?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

He keeps texting you like that because one time it might work.

[creative_hairdresser]

what might work? im not gunna be a booty call not to him ny way lol

[yaddayaddayadda02]

YOU know what you will do. HE doesn't know what you'll do. Think of it from a Cost/Benefit perspective. The cost to send a text message is 30 seconds of his time. The benefit if it actually works is a piece of ass.

[creative_hairdresser]

yeah but every time it ends up me lecturing him n telling him every thing thats wrong with him n how his behavior disgusts me n then him saying sorry i thought he'd get sick of that but he keeps coming back

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You're assuming that he's carefully reading your words and reevaluating his life choices as a result of them.

He could just as easily be scrolling right back and saying to himself "If I get her this emotional, I've got her".

[creative_hairdresser]

so how do i make him realise im not gunna sleep wiv him

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You just say "listen, this isn't working out, we don't want the same things... Please don't text me any more". And block his #.

[Anonymous]

Because he is a fool.

[creative_hairdresser]

ummm thats not helpful at all lol

[Opinion Owner]

Does a person really need a reason to be annoying?

[creative_hairdresser]

i just wanna know what the hell he is thinking or what does he want coz its driving me insane

[Opinion Owner]

He wants sex. He's thinking poorly.

[creative_hairdresser]

yeah thats what i thought how do i get him to stop then because i feel weird wen im with the new guy n i've told him about the new guy but he still doesn't leave me alone

[Opinion Owner]

Block them.

[creative_hairdresser]

i can't block text messages i can block phone calls but thats it

[Opinion Owner]

You can. Call your provider. Have the texts blocked.