How often do you fall in love?

[DishLady]

Seeing and loving people's qualities has always been easy for me, but falling for a person has always been a challenge. There's a certain level of chemistry I'm told I bring to the table, which is kind of people to say, but there's also a certain level of chemistry I would want in someone I see as a possible partner.

Other people seem to fall in love with a new person every few months... so I wonder on average how often you've fallen in love.

Every few months... it's not that serious.

Every few years... semi-serious

Only a few times... serious.

Only once or twice... very serious.

[Orion84]

So far, very rarely.

I've been in a few relationships, lasting anywhere from several months, to over a decade, and I've only truly been in love twice.

I consider "love" to becan extremely serious thing. It's not something I throw around or feel for every woman I meet. I only love someone that I would consider marrying, and/or dying for, and thus far, that has only been two women, ever.

[Alex_Bright]

Finding people attractive, enjoying their company for walks or conversations and falling in love are all very different things.
Attraction is easy, love is rare.

[worldscolide]

Its rare for me. So rare in fact, its been twice in my entire life. Once with my first when i was 17 and once with my wife.