How many times have you fallen in love?

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For me, it's only been one true time I fell in love. And I'm starting to think I may never fall in love again.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Truthfully 1 time and she became my wife that I spent 20 some years of my life with and she was the mother of our children , but now that we are no longer together , I been open to finding another girl that will be my actual true love , until death do us part , All my other girlfriends’ I been with, I don’t consider true love , because words mean shit without actions and people that truly love each other, don’t walk away from each other period. So until I find that girl , I am loveless

dudeinohio · Accepted Answer

Maybe four times. You'll find someone again. After my first, I felt like you did, too. Losing the first one is the hardest... not that they all aren't rough. You just got to believe and take time to heal.

Bitter_Sweet94 · Accepted Answer

Once or twice in the way that actually mattered.

The kind that hits slow, stays long, and changes how you see people and yourself.

The rest were just strong feelings that felt like love at the time, but didn’t have the depth to last.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Honestly, probably only 4 times, and 2 of those (both men) cheated on me.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Falling in love can be like a rollercoaster of emotions, taking you on unexpected twists and turns. 💘 I've been in love a couple times myself, and each time brought its own lessons and joys. Don't fret about never falling in love again—it often sneaks up on us when we least expect it! Keep your heart open to possibilities. 😉

ohsheeT · Answer

I fall in love every time I meet someone. But for the true. Just once

aaron13547 · Answer

Many many many times I've fallen into love. But falling in love is the problem. Love isn't suppose to be a fall; its suppose to be something you grow. Only Once I found a person to grow love with. It didn't work out in the end. But I'll never fall in love again. Growing love is the way! Its hard to find someone else capable of that but when you do it is soooooo worth it. You dont go back to fall.

Bricealan · Answer

@simslover92 I'm hard pressed to answer, because I have a hard time deciphering the difference between, 'Love" per se and just a wonderful attraction, to someone whose qualities I admire. Strange, I know. I loved my now departed brother, and mother/father. I don't know, sweet pea, how to define  love  for myself.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Your never gonna get over him cause you won't let yourself get over him. How can you get over someone you still dealing with and sleeping with periodically. You have to make a clean break and move on with you life. I dont know about you but I dont want to be anyone's second choice. Move on and maybe your find a man that will love you just as much as you love him

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

3 times
The first, when i was a kid and i don't know if it was love from one side or not because i have never told her that i love her, we just remained school friends...

Second, we fell in love but it was an LDR which lasted for 3 to 4 years than we broke up...

Third, she was my ex-wife, our marriage lasted nearly 9 years...

ABC1x1x · Answer

Countless. Every time I look at a person. Just love at first sight. But I've only loved 3 women longer than first sight. One girl for 389 days, one girl very hard for 200 days. One girl forbiddenly for 20 years and one I've been Married to for 20 years.

Tarifa · Answer

In love, I'd say as many times as I can count on the fingers of one hand.

Crushes, in all forms and intensities, multiply that by at least three.

Don't think it will never happen again. It will when you least expect it.

JHNS98 · Answer

Only once or twice, it depends... One took five months to build and lasted another five months, the other was a "first sight" kinda thing that only lasted five days.

Billlewis · Answer

In total, probably 4-5 times. Three of them were Cancer women, and all but the current one (my fiancée) said 'No'.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Was it lust or love? Hard to tell in retrospect and with personal bias for the times it didn't work out. Guessing, maybe a handful.

Abbycado · Answer

Just with the guy I am currently in a relationship with.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Only counting romantic prospects with people Once truly Maybe a few more casual loves A few non-romantic people Plenty of other things

Twodogs0525 · Answer

True love, only once and we are married. Prior to that, I was in love every other month.

CherryLove007 · Answer

It's been 3 magical times... the first one well he was all that and a bag of chips!

Anonymous · Answer

But u just said u don’t know if it’s love or addiction

WhitneySnow · Answer

Two or three, not counting teen infatuations

loveslongnails · Answer

I "fall in love" several hundred times a year. LOL I think you're asking how many times I've actually loved someone?

RandomGirl42 · Answer

Oh, I fall in love a 100 times a day, with many people and many things. 🤣

But I do believe I have only 1 "soul mate" for lack of better term , that I am so, so blessed to be with for 5 years now and I pray an eternity more.

Shiprex · Answer

Twice but some degree fairly often just not enough to make changes and go after.

MrChinaski · Answer

Six times. Truly, madly, deeply. It's easy if you try.

Mark987 · Answer

Honestly I think twice. The first girlfriend was more just having fun and experiencing fun. The woman after I was in love with,

HawkPerception · Answer

I think twice so far.

clampfan101 · Answer

Just once, and the only reason we’re not together anymore is that she passed away.

msc545 · Answer

Never. Just lust which i mistook for love. Repeatedly.

Anonymous · Answer

Never…   and the one’s that say I love you have been good people but bad girlfriend. I pretty much don’t believe in love at this point

BeechImFabulous · Answer

I think twice. Might be working on the third time now.

Anonymous · Answer

Eight times, and it probably won't happen again.

bluecollarkk · Answer

Honestly twice in my life.. both ended because of lack of effort on their part or bad timing.

Joanna3 · Answer

I guess many times. Especially in my teens and early twenties.

dislikesmath · Answer

A few times 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Once where it was real..

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Over the course of years … a few times.

Cidknee · Answer

Dozens, starting in the 3rd grade.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Never have, at least not yet.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Twice, and always with the wrong person.

Deereeeee · Answer

Too many times

FreyaRed · Answer

1...

sage2021 · Answer

2 times

Xalooo · Answer

The situation is the same for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Twice and close to a third

exitseven · Answer

I say 4 times.

beebella · Answer

Zero

Jennz6 · Answer

Endlessly

Coden7 · Answer

Once

SoccerPlayer99 · Answer

3 times

Sebastian100 · Answer

4 times

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