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I don't know if I am just being a typical, jealous girlfriend and I should just chill the F out or if it sounds like I should be pissed off? Guys and gals, please give me you 100% honest opinion!

So basically my boyfriend is going away on holiday with a girl I really don't like nor trust! She has a reputation for sleeping around and does not care who she sleeps with! I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and he has reassured me that nothing will happen. I want to believe him because he has never given me a reason to feel like he is messing me about in the past. I guess the fact that he is away travelling with her and his friends before me, kinda makes me feel a little shitty.

I know when he drinks or pops the odd cheeky one on an occasional night out, that he gets extra flirty and touchy-feely with me but it would break my heart if I found out he had even touched another girl the way touches me.

I'm just really confused and a bit jealous that I am being left at home and he's away travelling with his guys mates and that girl! I keep telling myself that he would think of me and not do anything but what if things just got a bit too carried away, anything can happen in the spur of the moment right?

please guys just give me your honest opinions, I can take it. I want to know if I am just being a bitch or if it's just normal to feel this way?

Thanks!

There are 2 in particular that have remained family friends. I do not expect my brothers to stop associating with someone just because we didn't work out. Besides there was no "serious" feelings envolved either time. We just weren't a match.

My brother-in-law is a local musician and these guys date other girls now and take them to his shows and even come to Christmas and Thanksgiving at our house. I don't have a lot of dealings with them, but I am not rude when I see them, and I do not go out of my way to avoid them. I'm just indifferent.
I've been dating my new boyfriend for a couple of years and he is pretty jealous anyway. But just recently he learned that I have went on dates with these guys before now my life is extraordinarily boring and lonely. We are a pretty close family. Now he doesn't want to go to holidays or family gatherings with us anymore and gets furious if I do. I can no longer go to my brother-in-laws shows. But the worst thing is how he accuses me of keeping them around on purpose, so i will have someone on the backburner, incase I get mad at him. That hurts a lot because it shows me that he really doesn't know who I am after all this time. Plus I am sad that HE feels like I would do that.
He has an exwife and child that I may always have to deal with, but I accept that... even though he talks to her regularly AND I even found out Later that had slept with her a couple times when we were first together. If I DO say anything about it, he tells me stop bringing up the past. I don't think It is fair that I'm willing to deal with that but he thinks I should have to cut off my family or give them an ultimatum to cut their friends off or I can't associate with them anymore.. even on holidays. I love him but I am getting so sad. I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place. What should I do?